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Closing Out 2014

Some years are full of celebration and joy. Some are a mixture of hard times and good times. Some are more bad than good, or one really rough event clouds the rest of the events.

Earlier tonight I journaled in my paper notebook (blast from the past, I know) all the highlights of this last year for us... Health problems for me, milestones for my kids, saying goodbye to our dog, turning 40, having a child hit the teen years, and welcoming a new niece. We increased our chickens up to a total of 8, obtained 4 rabbits, and started our first year of homeschooling without being part of any group. My kids embarked on several new adventures with gymnastics/tumbling and crocheting. We revolutionized our finances as a result of going through Financial Peace. I began really seeing the young years of parenting in the rear view mirror, and have been challenged in my faith after finishing George Whitefield's biography.

After having written sympathy notes for loved ones who have lost three people close to them this past week, it's been a sober reminder of what a bad year means. While I've had some rough times and have really needed the support of those who gave it, I'm so thankful to not have buried a family member or close friend.

I'm thankful for the family we have, for my priceless friends, and for those who fall in to both categories.


2014 in review

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Psalm 136 Thanks for the Lord’s Goodness to Israel.


136 Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
Give thanks to the God of gods,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
Give thanks to the Lord of lords,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
To Him who alone does great [a]wonders,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
To Him who made the heavens [b]with skill,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
To Him who spread out the earth above the waters,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
To Him who made the great lights,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting:
The sun to rule [c]by day,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
The moon and stars to rule [d]by night,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.


10 To Him who smote [e]the Egyptians in their firstborn,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
11 And brought Israel out from their midst,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
12 With a strong hand and an outstretched arm,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
13 To Him who divided the [f]Red Sea [g]asunder,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
14 And made Israel pass through the midst of it,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
15 But He [h]overthrew Pharaoh and his army in the [i]Red Sea,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
16 To Him who led His people through the wilderness,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
17 To Him who smote great kings,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
18 And slew [j]mighty kings,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting:
19 Sihon, king of the Amorites,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
20 And Og, king of Bashan,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
21 And gave their land as a heritage,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
22 Even a heritage to Israel His servant,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.


23 Who remembered us in our low estate,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
24 And has rescued us from our adversaries,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
25 Who gives food to all flesh,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
26 Give thanks to the God of heaven,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.

Our Journey to the Creation Museum

To kick off our Christmas break, we headed to northern Kentucky/southern Ohio in order to visit the Creation Museum! It's been a desire of ours for years, and finally the time seemed right to make a go of it. I'd expected it to fully give glory to God and teach us lots of things we don't know, but I really could not have prepared for what it felt like to be in a museum completely based on the truth of God's word. It's the sort of feeling you know is just a foretaste of what is to come in Heaven, and it makes me want to go back.

Upon entering the museum we saw the staff hold hands and pray as part of their morning gathering. (we were early, of course) Given the fact schools were still in session, we were practically the only car in the lot, and we were definitely the first people in the museum and the last to leave that first day.

There is so much to offer at the Creation Museum. You can really see that Ken Ham put a lot of thought in to keeping it interesting for children and adults, and asking good questions is a fundamental aspect of real science. Questions are posted throughout the museum, and the same facts evolutionists and creationists use are presented--the determining factor is the starting point. It is incredulous that anyone could believe in evolution if they really study the human body, the solar system, ecology...basically any field of science. There are many leaps made by those who refuse to believe in God, and many secular scientists realize this themselves.

We see the results of believing the human race has come from nothing--kids who don't value life, people who are completely lost or willing to commit murder to an unborn person. To go through life thinking there is no purpose, that your life really doesn't matter because you were just a cosmic accident, is dismal to say the least.

Through multimedia presentations, special speaker sessions, the planetarium,  and the main exhibit hall, there is an abundance of information that helps a Christian see, in new ways, God's love and mercy for His creation. It is faith building to get a hold of God's power and His working in the world!

If you plan to visit the Creation Museum, give yourself two full days. You will have plenty to do-- and bring some money. The bookstore is gloriously vast and has much to encourage and equip young and old.

I particularly enjoyed meeting Buddy Davis and attending two sessions he was leading--one was a musical event where he performed and the other a hands-on talk about T-Rex where the kids made dinosaur sculptures. Buddy is self-taught and made most of the dinosaur displays at the Creation Museum. He has a real heart for sharing God's truth and I appreciate his influence on my kids. The session that has stuck with me the most as far as facts was one entitled "Beauty is Only Skin Deep". It was amazing to learn about histology and how intricate even the hairs on our heads are. We learned the why of God saying He 'knit us together'. The museum has not skimped on quality speakers.

Other trip tips: give yourself an entire day to drive there and back. We stayed at the Residence Inn, which is considered Cincinnati airport but is in KY.  Avoid driving near the hotel before 9 am and after 4 pm. The traffic is an absolute nightmare and if you think you'll get wise and avoid it, you just might get directed down a treacherous road that will then take you to a FERRY! (no kidding, the GPS told us to pull in and 'board ferry'! We turned around and ate dinner at the hotel that night). Residence Inn's boast a kitchenette so you can take your own food if you want to cut costs, and they offer dinner during the week for free.  The room we stayed in had a working gas fireplace, two bedrooms and two full baths, plus space for an air mattress if you need more sleeping space. The complementary breakfasts are tasty and offer plenty of choices, so they don't get mundane. This Residence Inn does require a short walk outside through a courtyard to get to the main building where meals are served.


Love and Forgiveness

Has there ever been someone in your life that loved you or your children, and just kept at it, asking nothing in return? I've had that experience for many, many years, and you know what happened somewhere along the way? I began loving that person.

This is a perfect illustration of God's love toward us, right down to the imperfect people He has used and is continuing to use as the story of mankind is written.

Love breaks down barriers, it opens doors to blessings for us and others. When we give to someone, which sometimes simply may mean letting them love us, we end up being given to.

There is nothing gained from holding on to grudges, justified or not. There will be opportunities lost that we cannot even fathom. As we hold on to our pain and what we consider righteous indignation, our hands become more and more empty. Love and forgiveness bring something altogether different. They build--they increase.

When giving to others is our focus, and glorifying God is our mission, when the saving truth of Jesus' death, burial and resurrection are upon our lips because of our love for mankind, we can rest assured that our life is one that builds rather than tears down. My hope is to realize that one person that may let me down or tear down in my world may actually be used of God to build up and support in someone else's world. We all sin, we all fall short. If we can just remember this reality, we'll deal with with other people with much more understanding.

Grace, grace, God's grace. Grace that is greater than all my sin...may I approach others with this attitude in Christ Jesus.

~Ann

What Does the Bible Say About Child Rearing?

What Does the Bible Say About Child Rearing?.

I may have posted this before. It speaks well to the idea that there are various biblical ways to discipline children.

It is very clear when a child is not spanked when seeing them in their moments of 'less- than- optimal behaviors'; they simply do not really care what their parents are saying to them to contradict what they want to do. There is no immediate change of direction based on their parents instruction. The age at which this is clear varies, but it is nonetheless a trait that sadly doesn't need to be there.

I'll be direct and as lovingly as I can point out that it is an unwise Christian parent who buys in to the world's ideas of discipline and child training. We must be consistent with a worldview that brings glory to God if we expect to see His type of results, especially in our parenting. God did not mince words on how to raise children who live up to their fullest potential and who are not rebellious.

After being a parent for 13 yrs, I can honestly say the children who come to my home and are trained properly are the greatest joy to be around. This means they are consistently and lovingly reproved for disobeying, and mother has clear standards of first time obedience with a good attitude. If the child is old enough to throw something they ought not, they are old enough to be taught to help clean up the mess. When mother does her job effectively during a visit, we can all enjoy ourselves and my kids aren't expected to chase after the little ones the entire visit, keeping them safe. My children may wish to watch the little ones, but mother is able and willing to do the job. There is a difference. I don't understand parents who repeat themselves with no reaction from their kids. Why are there such low standards? First-time obedience with a good attitude is a standard that is attainable, and parents should not expect less or tolerate less. Children who are disciplined in this manner end up happier and more content in their life because they've denied themselves from early on. We know from Scripture that no good way dwells with in us. Our hearts are desperately wicked and we love ourselves far too much. It is only reasonable to see that children who are held to a high standard, and parents who lovingly sacrifice to train them properly, will reap rewards not attainable by other, lower, means.

Disciplining properly means doing so without anger or delay. It means having your home be the training ground so when you are around others your child is not a problem. Once a child is walking, it is time to work daily, all the time, on teaching them to respect other people's homes, time, and if out in public, the money others have spent to eat out or enjoy themselves. A sad reality in today's world is that many mother's think they are allowed down-time during visiting. If the father is keeping an eye on the children, great, take a break, but otherwise when you have small children you are 'on' 24/7.

~Ann

Proverbs 29

The Joy of Being Pregnant

Before any of my friends wonder if this is a covert announcement, it isn't! No baby news here, but I am thrilled to share that my good friend had her new baby girl yesterday. It's her third, a surprise planned by God. I can't wait to go see her!!

Mary, Jesus' mother, was surely excited in anticipation of giving life to a sweet babe, the Son of God. What an amazing reality that "when the fullness of the time came, God sent forth His son, born of a woman, born under the Law." We would have no need of celebrating Easter if not for the birth of our Savior. The gratitude we can share during this time of year for God loving us so much He sent a way for us to be forgiven of our sins, is such a pleasure. Let's not belittle the reality of the gift of Christ!

So often people will use the excuse, "No one is perfect", when talking about people who 'believe in Christ' as an excuse of why they aren't really following Him. It's good to be reminded that even Satan 'believes'; it is the one who does the WILL of the Father who is in the fold. That means we need to bend our will to match God's. So if we are a follower of Christ, we can't practice fornication, drunkenness, lying, deception etc. as a way of life. We ought to want to please Him and as we learn what doesn't, we need to change. If this isn't you and you think you are going to Heaven, please read the gospel of John!. We aren't free to do whatever we want if we are a Christian. It isn't the change of action that SAVES us, but the change of action comes as a result of being saved.

I'm blessed to have some near and dear family members pregnant for the first time ever. It is such a time of glorious anticipation. Everyone who wants children longs for the chance to raise them the way they think is best, and many parents, especially those who are older, have a lot of ideas about how it needs to go. I think it is very fun and look forward to seeing how things play out. It is  not an easy task regardless of how you go about it, and you'll not find another family doing anything the way you do it exactly. Having that understanding helps so much when it comes to making decisions that are radically different from family or close friends.

Mary and Joseph were dealing with a very unique situation. If we walk close to what Jesus taught and did, parenting will go much smoother than it would otherwise.

Merry Christmas!





True Joy-

I was listening to the first Acts sermon from Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones tonight, which I know I've listened to before. Tonight the message has challenged me greatly, and it is a sober reminder to modern-day Christians about what true joy is.

My thoughts as I listened...

Do we inadvertently teach our children that joy comes from artificial or untrue means? I tend to think that yes, many of us do this in regard to holidays, and I can't help but think it lends itself to the sadness many people feel at the holidays as they age. When the magic is based on false-hood, there can only be one outcome later: something missing. It is a denial of the truth of God's word that we need anything artificial to experience joy in this life. The Christian life is one that is intended to be lived joyfully irrespective of circumstances, but, oh! how that challenges my heart and life. Dr. Jones was spot on when he gave the example of a married couple whose joy was dependent on their relationship. This is such a reality for anyone married--how to transcend this is yet something I've not fully grasped all the time, in every situation.

Let us not communicate to our friends, families, and loved ones that the solemnity of Christianity in any way diminishes the joy of living a life for God's own purpose. In keeping the 'Christ' in Christmas, let us each be challenged as to what that means, and give ourselves and our kids the best opportunity to cherish the celebrations of our religion: through truth, holiness, and worship. The question we need to ask in regard to all we do and how we do it is this: is it going to point others to Jesus Christ and the saving gospel? Is it exemplifying holiness or is it making light of something sacred?

Oh! To be like George Whitefield, who knew so well how to major on what mattered most, pass over what did not, and who did not create unbiblical division in the name of legalistic, self-imposed holiness, which actually hinders the cause of Christ.


God's Wisdom

I like classical education because it capitalizes on how children learn and what stage of life they are in. For example, young children are able to memorize so easily, that is a key focus in the primary years. Going with the natural bend of the mind expands the ability to learn and simplifies it. Why not make full use of how the brain is working?

Along a similar vein, it is neat to think about how when parents are in their 20's they have loads of energy and determination. It is the perfect blend for rearing infants and small children. The mind is still sharp and more than capable of taking in hoards of new information. Sleep deprivation is dealt with and so is the physical demand small children bring. Fast forward ten to fifteen years...the kids are older and very helpful, and wouldn't you know it, Mom and Dad are more tired. They may have physical limitations like chronic foot pain. Going without sleep is a whole different story than the early years of marriage. Wisdom has grown, and as it happens, it is just in time for where the children are developmentally.

It is good to have children in your youth-it determines how you parent in many respects and it is easier. People who are more tired often do not readily do many of the difficult things required to teach children to sleep through the night or eat what they are given. People in the throws of a serious career do not have the time to attend parenting classes, shop around for the best pediatrician, or read oodles of parenting books. Those are tasks young parents are more game for. I do not want to be a discouragement, but rather shed light for parents who are older. Sometimes if we are simply aware of what our tendency may be, it can help us rise to the challenge. Keeping in mind that it is far easier to mold a child that is young should help. If you wait until you aren't tired, they'll be too old to easily work with.

I'm sure trends are always changing, but I guess my point is that perhaps we ought to think about the whole picture of the fertile years and God's timing on bringing two people together when deciding on having children or not having them. The number of kids on some kind of medication today is staggering, and I for one think the environment in which they are raised plays in to it heavily. As we see the ages of first-time parents rising along with this information about drugged kids, it gives one pause. We can't deny nature or methods of parenting having specific outcomes. Just look up some information about ADHD diagnosis' and sleep deprivation. Yet in this era of, "I love my kids too much to make them sleep through the night.", I think we'll see the truth is that parents are hurting their kids, which is the opposite of actually loving them.

~Ann

That’s the Best Frosting I’ve Ever Had | Tasty Kitchen: A Happy Recipe Community!

That’s the Best Frosting I’ve Ever Had | Tasty Kitchen: A Happy Recipe Community!.

I can't wait to whip this up before I make dinner and then head out with my bosom bud for a night of fun! Let me know if you try it and how you think it is :).

**I think it is a really nice consistency and has a good flavor. We put it on vanilla cake and it really beckons to be paired with chocolate. I'd make it again.

~Ann

Sleep Problems and ADHD

Here is an interesting read about ADHD and sleep deprivation in children. It speaks on other things as well, but we can't ignore the benefits of making children learn to sleep through the night at a young age. There is a reason it was common years ago to teach a child that had doubled its birth weight to sleep all through night. Of course when breastfeeding, nighttime weaning coincides with when the baby no longer needs nighttime nutrition.

A solid routine of no TV and dim lights in the room where baby will sleep is a very good practice to help bring about a consistent bedtime. Parents need to learn the different cries of their children, and learn the cues of sleepiness. Too often parents who are ignorant of these things end up training their children to actually stay awake beyond their natural readiness for bed. The TV was scarce when my kids were growing up for intellectual reasons, but even if you don't worry about that, it doesn't help nap time or bedtime since it can be a stimulant, especially as children go from newborn to the older baby stage.

Any decent book on sleep and children, written from a medical perspective, will go over how much sleep children need. There is nothing wrong with watching your baby's cues and trying different things. For example, after the nighttime feeding and burping, lay them in the crib and tell them it is time to go to sleep--long before they understand the meaning of the words, they will start to understand what is expected. Give them 10-15 minutes to settle in-pat their back or bum and talk soothingly to them. We used to gently rub our child's face from her forehead down over her nose and that really comforted her. Babies fuss when they are tired, they fuss sometimes because they don't want to be held. Helping them go to sleep is a parent's job, and it takes work and patience, and of course, sacrifice of being alone in a quiet room, night after night, as baby learns it is bedtime. Again, watching cues and learning them is essential. There is a certain amount of sleep needed, so just keep sitting by the crib or going back in the room during the period of settling in, but make sure your child is getting the proper sleep for each stage of development.

http://sleepfoundation.org/sleep-disorders-problems/adhd-and-sleep

 

Jerusalem Update from Jim at Prophecy Matters

Dec 1 2014

Incitement…from the West

In recent weeks, the Israel Security Agency uncovered a plot by Hamas terrorists to assassinate Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman. According to one report, they had already begun gathering operational intelligence and weapons.

Meanwhile, a Hamas leaflet showed a cartoon-type illustration of a wave of water bearing-down on an Orthodox Jew. In the wall of water were a car, a knife, a meat cleaver, and a gun. All weapons used to try and kill Jews recently in the latest insane wave of violence directed at Jews, by Palestinians. The title of the illustration was “The Jerusalem tsunami.”

On November 23, near the Gaza border, north of the Jabaliya refugee camp, a Palestinian named Muhammad Halawa was killed by the IDF. Palestinian media reported Halawa was killed while “trying to catch birds.” Hamas spokesman Sami Abu Zuhri charged that this was a gross violation of the lull agreement between Israel and Hamas, and “called on the international community to take responsibility.”

All these incidents, so tragically common in Israel and the Palestinian territories, are part of a fabric of propaganda that is aided and abetted by Western sources that coddle the Arabs. We live in a time (who hasn’t in the past 4,000 years?) when the hunting and killing of Jews is not considered to be evil by the vast majority of people. I have long maintained that these “little” terror incidents are in fact huge in their implications.

Take one more, for example.

According to a report on the Facebook page of the Israel Police Force:

“There was a double stabbing attack in the Old City of Jerusalem. A 45 year-old Israel man was stabbed in the chest with a knife; he said Arabs had attacked him. Another man sustained minor injuries. Investigation revealed that the two, who had left their yeshiva, were attacked by four Palestinians, who stabbed them with sharp instruments and fled. The Israeli

security forces conducted a search and detained four young Palestinians from the Old City of Jerusalem.”

I’ve been in the Old City many times, all through it, and the thought of bloodthirsty Palestinians planning violence is unacceptable. Yes, tourists are relatively safe; the terrorists usually know the difference between a camera-carrying fellow from Milwaukee and a yeshiva student, but the narrow alleyways and nooks and crannies make for perfect hideaways.

Where is the outrage from Western leaders over all these incidents? The answer of course is that they don’t exist. Not even a massive bloodbath like the infamous Dolphinarium slaughter of 2001 prompted much in the way of outcry.

As I often do, I must say again: where are the evangelical leaders in America who will condemn, wholly, the targeting and murder of Jews?

The Israelis complain often about the incitement to violence from the Palestinian Authority. But isn’t gross silence and indifference from Western leaders, including elitist evangelical leaders, also a form of incitement? A hands-off approach so long as it’s only Jews being murdered?

I have long believed that at the root of the silence is a simple dislike of Jews. This comes from all denominations: the mainline churches “liked” Jews who were survivors of the Holocaust, because that madness was simply beyond the pale. However, they did not like Jews with guns, the IDF, and especially after the Six Day War, the tolerance from the liberal churches waned.

But even in the so-called conservative denominations, I know leadership — from the SBC and the Assemblies of God — that clearly seems to have a problem with Jews. They might acknowledge and even embrace much of prophecy. They might have some respect for Israel as an ally in the War on Terror.

In their hearts, though, they harbor anti-Semitic attitudes. Somewhere in the childhoods, or in seminary, or around the dinner table, they heard that Jews control all the money in the world, or foment violence in order to prosper. Or they’ve heard that Jews “killed Christ.”

All these dark spots on the hearts of professing Christians add up to one thing: stepping aside when Jews are being hurt.

Look at Jimmy Carter. How can the man teach Sunday school and embrace (literally!) Hamas terrorists? How can evangelical leadership gurus like Brad Lomenick and Gabe Lyons allow anti-Israel speakers at their conferences? How can Dr. Russell Moore of the SBC talk out of both sides of his mouth where Israel is concerned, even sounding eerily like a Replacement Theology guy when discussing Israel? What about the faculty at the Assemblies of God Theological Seminary, closely aligned with the Society for Pentecostal Studies — a group associated with Dr. Paul Alexander, a virulent critic of Israel? When Alexander was scrutinized by the top AG leadership for his liberal stances on homosexuality and the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, several SPS members privately expressed solidarity with Alexander.

Do rank-and-file Christians understand what is going on in “conservative” circles? At every turn, liberal and leftist ideology is seeping into the fabric of church life. And in this narrow focus of violence toward Jews and hatred of Israel, the trends are deeply troubling.

Let me be frank. Stalwart pro Israel leaders like Noah Hutchings at Southwest Radio Church are in the winter of their lives. Who is replacing them? Not enough apologists and pro Israel leaders. In fact, the “replacements” are center-left ideologues who privately (and soon, openly) have a bone to pick with Israel.

Let me give you one final example for now, to help you understand the networks.

Cameron Strang, publisher of Relevant magazine, has had his photo ops with Barack Obama in the White House. Why would the 30-ish Strang be invited to a shindig at the White House? Because Team Obama knows who the influencers are among young people, and Strang, in the pages of his magazine, never misses an opportunity to bash Israel.

This is what we are facing in the not-too-distant future. An age in which the gathering forces against Israel and her capitol, Jerusalem, grow more menacing.

And fewer seem to care.

jim@prophecymatters.com

Grace Alone

In listening to Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones' first two sermons on Romans (www.mljtrust.org) I have been bolstered in my faith mightily. The reminder in his poignant voice that faith is by grace alone, and no work of man, is encouraging as I seek to solidify my sharing the truth with others.

Men died throughout history for the straight-forward Biblical belief that grace is not administered through a sacrament like communion, nor is it granted through avoiding certain foods or performing certain acts of sacrifice on our part. God is fully responsible for our salvation. He grants it as a gift to us as we believe in the sacrificial death of Jesus Christ to cleanse us from all sin, as the Bible says.

With this in mind, we must ask the question: does it matter if a person believes in transubstantiation with communion? What is the doctrine associated with this belief? It is a practice which says Christ is being sacrificed for the taker, again and again...that grace is passed to the recipient through the sacrifice. But is this right?? NO! May it never be! Christ died for our sins, once and for all. The Scriptures attest to this truth. He is not re-sacrificed in the church service for us, nor is He bodily dying as we take communion. He has died, has risen, and has come again. Now He is seated at the right hand of the Father in Heaven.

A wrong understanding of this is to have a wrong understanding of salvation, which has eternal significance. We must be clear in the absolute love and mercy God showed in sending His one and only Son to pay the price for us. "It is finished." Christ said.

Standing true on doctrine is not hair splitting, nor is it unkind. We who have the truth are obliged to love God and mankind enough to proclaim how a man is delivered from this present darkness and put in a new position of reconciliation to the Creator God. In this current age of adding psychology to faith and promoting radical lifestyle changes, the work of God is often complicated erroneously. Salvation becomes a murky mix of works and some sort of belief, and thus we see born again believers weakened in their own faith and incompetent to share the Gospel--the Good News of the Bible.

I am seeing afresh how powerful the Solas of the reformation were and are. Here is a worthwhile read about them.

Ephesians 2:8-9

For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast.

Keep the faith, the simple pure word of God,

Ann

George Whitefield

I could talk at length about George Whitefield. My children are probably a little tired of hearing about the amazing man so used in what we think of as The Great Awakening. Today in church I was moved more than usual when we sung one of Charles Wesley's hymns. Envisioning those great, brave men, who strove so hard to share the forgiveness we can have in Jesus Christ singing the same hymn over 200 years ago, was powerful. I love knowing more about this period in our world history. More than that though, I love the reality that we can be made new in Jesus Christ. Behold, old things have passed away, all things are become new.

We live in a world that says we start out a certain way and that is just how we are. Some forms of criminals are hailed as people who will 'never change' for example.

I squint in disbelief when I hear so-called Christians speak that way. I am saddened when I see those lost, separated from the love of God, speak that way.

Do we limit God? Do we limit the awe inspiring power of the Holy Spirit of the one Almighty Creator of all we see and don't see? Are we so alone we do not realize there is a God who loves us and who is eager to be in fellowship with us, if we will but repent and believe that He is there to heal the sick and bind the broken-hearted? Is our way working so well we don't need God? Are we so happy with the way our plan is going that we won't even give the Bible and its loving-kindness a try?

There is One who has the power to not only raise the dead, heal the sick, bring righteous vengeance on those who deserve it, but who also forgives sin--the sin each of us is born with and the sin each of us chooses to do. If we will but humble ourselves before the mighty hand of God, who is a God of love and justice, and admit we have fallen short as He says we all have, we can be born anew. There is a real power in God's Holy Spirit, and if we seek Him, we shall find Him. We must be ready to die to ourselves though. Die to our sin and put on His righteousness, which He will help us do. Jesus Christ bridged the gap between us and God, taking the penalty of our sin upon Himself, once and FOR ALL.

We do not need to be slaves to sin, driven and tossed by the wind. We can experience and live Psalm 46:10--

Be still and know that I am God.

This is true freedom. To be free to worship and serve the true God, in wholeness.

~Ann

Grandma's Wisdom

I was blessed today to have a talk with a friend's mother. She was watching her grandson who has been terribly indulged in his three years of life, and it was mealtime. Not wanting what he'd been given and fussing about it, she wisely made him sit at the table until he ate what she prepared. Crying and other manipulative gestures left her unmoved; her love for him dictated her actions to make him do what was right.

Children can and should be taught to appreciate what is given them as soon as the breast or bottle is not the primary source of food, which for most babies is around 6 months of age. It takes consistent, purposeful training to have this skill effectively learned...years of consistency. Parents today must understand that children are taught NOT to be grateful when they are permitted to refuse good food offered. Only in a nation as wealthy as the United States does this even require saying. It really is a disgrace on us as a culture that we actually raise children to shun fresh, healthy food. Truly, we are fools thinking we are somehow in the wrong to make them sit and eat what they are served when children all over the world are starving. Telling children to be grateful does not make it thus. Hunger before mealtime has always been understood as the means of then EATING what you are given. That satisfaction of hunger diminishing helps gratitude get cultivated. How blessed we are to be able to assuage that feeling whenever we want in our kids, but we must allow the hunger to come if they are to eat what they need for optimum body and brain development. Kids can not snack all day long. Snacks lack the nutritive content a growing child requires, and the child never feels really hungry so they eat as much as they need to in order to sleep all night and/or grow well.

Every action we do as parents is teaching our children something positive or something negative.  We live in a day where many parents act like the babysitter, and so the poor child is left untrained and thus becomes a very unpleasant individual to be around.

What a joy it was to my heart to hear of one who remembers that there are times in raising children that require us to love enough to do what is best for them! Do we not want our children and our parenting to serve as a means of bringing glory to the Lord?

~Ann

Annual Question

Son: "Mom, why do they call it Black Friday?"

Mom: "Um, I don't know. Maybe because shopping is dark."

Smirk.

I plan to die having never participated in going out for Black Friday shopping. It will be a badge of honor, in this case pronounced with a strong 'H' and a bit of an accent.

~Ann

Peace From Above

Recently I was speaking to a mature Christian woman about a situation, and she did not say one way or the other what she thought, but left me with a piece of advice that when she is unsure about something, she doesn't do it. She also reminded me that it is clear when God answers.

The nature of this issue couldn't be left to unknowns, so my husband and I worked through it in detail. It is amazing that even when no one you know agrees with you, when God leads, you can have peace. And we do.

I am seeing that the most important thing we can teach our children as Christians is to live to please God while striving to keep peace with those around us as much as possible. We live in a world of compromise and human wisdom. A world that doesn't want to offend other people, even if it means offending God. As things get more wicked, however, our kids need to see us stand strong for the truth. We can pretend that going along to get along will woo people to Christ, but it doesn't. The world needs something very different from what it already has. Sometimes our own conscious needs to reign and protecting our kids' conscious needs to be of great importance. Often we focus so much on the lost around us that we make poor decisions when it comes to our own family. It is a difficult dance to perform.

If done thoughtfully and with love, it is not wrong to make decisions that hurt people, especially when it means pleasing the Lord. How can we, as representatives of Christ, sit quietly by in support during an event that pointedly blasphemes Christ, the Holy Spirit, and lies about how we are reconciled to God? It is one thing when you go in to a situation unaware of exactly what takes place; it is entirely different when you know. When something makes you sick to think about, take time to wait on the Lord, and be careful who you ask advice from.

One of the best aspects of aging is getting to a point of not trying to convince those around you of how you are living your life for Christ. I look forward to fully getting to that place. It is getting better all the time, but I know it will get even easier.

Be convinced in your own mind and act, taking time to explain to your children because the days are evil.

~Ann

Foolproof Turkey Gravy

Foolproof Turkey Gravy.

Just a little tip from Betty Crocker!

Are you cooking this year? I am and am looking forward to it. It's a great way to teach the girls how to prepare a big dinner, and it is really great to not have to go anywhere or clean the house for 'company'. Sure, I'm recovering from surgery, but the perks are still there!

***the way I did my gravy, and always do: Melt some butter in the pan, add in flour and mix up well with a flat whisk so it is little clumps all over the bottom of the pan. This will do the thickening in a minute. Pour in liquid (stock) and stir rapidly. Add in a little milk. Keep stirring as thickens up. Season if stock already wasn't. If at the end of this you want it thicker, mix a little cornstarch with a cool liquid till smooth and gradually pour in as you stir. Go slow.

Happy Thanksgiving!



Iain Murray

Iain Murray.

I just want to have this page marked. While I do not agree with Mr. Murray's theology entirely, I respect his work. The fact he was close to D. Martyn-Lloyd Jones is a great asset in my opinion of him, and I'm looking forward to reading Jonathan Edwards: A New Biography.

Order

A well-ordered home isn't a thing of the past or a novel concept, nor is it one option among other good options. It is a solid standard that not only reflects the character of God, but it provides an ideal environment for children to grow. A mother should surely be able to manage a home and several small children. If she can't, then the parenting ideals need evaluating.

Too often parents today let the child dictate the way the home is run. This leads to chaos, tired children who don't grow and thrive as they could, and parents who are not in control. It often impacts a family's nutrition as well because for some reason, a mother who takes the time to prepare nutritious food and serve it at a table every night is usually the same type who loves her family enough to manage it. It isn't a matter of needing more hands on deck. It is a matter of understanding the duties of a parent and taking charge of that, learning to find joy in doing the work God has set before you.


A New Season-Crossing Over

Milestones are those monumental events you can envision when you are much younger than the age at which you'll actually experience said events.

Turning 16, 21, marriage, first babies, certain career goals, driving, first house buying.... (hopefully not in this order!)

As we age, however, there are milestones that come in to the picture which we never may have envisioned, at least not in the way it ends up happening.

I'm about to close a door to a part of life that I never would have anticipated.

A milestone.

An ending.

When one thing ends though, something else begins. A new season.

A new reality.

When Christ died, it was an ending. His earthly life. Our sin debt. It could have looked bleak. It did for those who didn't and don't understand, but the new reality was and is beyond words.

It is too easy to hold on to the old times, the goodbyes, and the way it was. Those things are in the past, and what lies before is where the action is. The joy, the new birth, the life.

Forty has been full of newness here. Full of change. I'm trying to be excited about it all, but peering over the fence to a chapter closing, it is a little sad.

~ACL

Wichita Cabin Coop - BackYard Chickens Community

Wichita Cabin Coop - BackYard Chickens Community.

I couldn't love their coop design any more than I do. It covers all the important areas of coop-dom! If we ever build a new one, this is what I'd love to do, having it open to a larger fenced run like we have now. Great job to these folks!

Perfect Sister | Confessions of a Pioneer Woman | Ree Drummond

Perfect Sister | Confessions of a Pioneer Woman | Ree Drummond.

I am sitting here, late, thinking about my sisters, who I got to see or talk to at great length today. Oh, how I adore them!

I don't post pictures, but if I did, it would be such fun to share something like this post by The Pioneer Woman (whose sister is my age!). I'll just have to share Ree's sentiment.

A sister is one of the greatest gifts God can give a girl. I'm doubly blessed and wouldn't have it any other way. My sisters and I have grown in to different women with different families, but we share so much that is the same. We treat other people in a similar fashion and we care in similar ways; we turn things over in our minds in a similar way and we communicate similarly.

I cannot imagine my life without them. That about says it all and sums up one way a sister relationship is so special.


Looking Ahead

I was thinking recently about how where we live when our kids reach the age of college and marrying will impact the rest of our holidays. I'm not sure why this occurred to me this year, but it is a thing to think about if you happen to be able to relocate at some point during your children's lives.

Think of this-kids grow up and get married. If their spouse's family lives in-town close to where you live, great, everyone will stay in that town and get to see everyone on holidays. Your kids will see their in-laws and you. If one of your children marries someone with an out-of-town family, they may alternate the years they see each side or the holiday they see each side. This will  mean staying put at home so the kids can come to you. With multiple children, the odds of having some always available to come home and some not available, is higher. Even if the parent's generation can go see their siblings on holidays, it is unlikely all of the younger generation will be able to when they are married because they'll have each group of parents to see.

God has put my family several hours from both sides of our extended family, and so this is all very relevant to what my future likely holds. I see now why my friend's mom was saying that it was only recently she got to see her sisters again on Christmas. Everyone was busy with their own grown kids and their families, and it just isn't possible to get everyone together. As I think about other older people I know who live in another state from their siblings, they never see their extended families on holidays. Their kids see the in-laws first, then they head to their house later in the day.

It is a good reminder to be thankful for these years where we can all be together. It is a sober reminder to think hard on where you want to live as you raise your kids--nearby family or farther away? Sometimes we can't choose this so we have to trust God with it.

We worked to get as close as we could to our family 9 years ago, but as I think on these later dynamics, it will possibly not be close enough to all be involved with the extended family once my kids are married. 


Biographies of Great Men

Does your faith need  bolstering? Are you caught up in the unimportant events of this age? I've watched someone I love grow mightily in the Lord, and have noticed what he reads. Biographies of great men: D. Martyn-Lloyd Jones, George Whitefield, Jonathan Edwards...

I'm currently reading George Whitefield's biography and look forward to it daily. It fills the soul and inspires me to not only cherish the saving Gospel of Jesus Christ, but to delve in to the Word of God more fervently.

We can learn much from studying men who gave their all for the Gospel! Unlike when we're done watching TV, our spirits will be encouraged and lasting growth will have occurred.

Dying to Self

Loving the church, the true church founded by Jesus Christ, means putting the Gospel and furthering it above all else. It doesn't matter if we don't like someone in our circle of influence. It doesn't matter if people think they are our friends but we really don't feel that way. It matters not if we are wronged or falsely accused.

Anyone who tries to teach the truth of God's word will be falsely accused or wrongly interpreted.

Anyone who deals with other people, ever, will be wronged.

Sometimes we need to step back and evaluate just what our role is in a relationship or situation. It hurts when we realize that changes need to be made. It's often disappointing.

A comforting thought is that it is never wrong to love others and try to point them to the one true God. We do not need to be friends with people on our end, but we can be their friend.

Realistic expectations are essential to any relationship. (thanks, kc)

To God be the Glory.

Happy Election Day!

Want to Be A Better Cook?

I'm sure many of us ladies wish we were better cooks. Sure, there may be a few things we know we do really well. Maybe more than a few. But there is a sure-fire way to get better at cooking on a regular basis, and it is to actually cook more. This requires eating out less.

I think many of us can slip in to saving our 'special meals' for times when someone else is doing the cooking, and we'll pay top dollar for it even. We can shy away from cooking things that we really love if it is easier to buy it out, but seldom does any food bought 'out' taste better than a carefully prepared meal at home.

It is also true that you will lose weight if you stop eating out, even if you make great food at home. Of course, portion control does have to come in to play, but being able to control the fat and salt makes a big difference in calories. It is also better to have less preservatives and fresher food, which eating 'in' affords.

It is very easy to turn to carry out or prepared items at the end of a busy school day, but you will feel so much better if you don't allow yourself the easy out.

Something we have done, which is making each week start off more pleasurable, is to have a very nice dinner PLUS dessert on Monday evenings. There is an inherent feeling of reward, and I feel good making something everyone will love. The dessert part has been divine. It is radically new for me to make a dessert weekly, let alone the same night each week. (not that we are confined to only that one night each week) :)

Some special dinner ideas:

mini cheddar meatloaves, buttered corn, homemade bread, mashed potatoes

cajun pot roast with onions, mashed potatoes, homemade buttermilk biscuits, fresh honey glazed carrots

roast chicken, roasted potatoes, green bean casserole, homemade rolls

Dessert ideas:

homemade tapioca pudding with whipped cream

bread pudding with strudel topping

banana/zucchini/apple bread

orange scones and cinnamon apple scones

I've found the less running around I do during the week, the more I feel like cooking. It is also easier to keep up with the details of the household. This is the best year I've had with knowing what is going on with my children's schooling. Yes, I have always homeschooled, but details like when the National Classical Latin Etymology Exam study session is usually have escaped me. I simply couldn't keep up with when it was, nor remember to have my student sit in on the class. Not so this year! She attended the session!!! I feel like such a winner.

We continue to learn the CC materials and are doing a memory master that doesn't wait until the end of the year. We've been through that 11 times and while it is very beneficial to push a student to accomplish something along that line, it requires too much valuable school time to achieve. The most important thing is that they know the material and know how to memorize. The content does matter IMO. Why waste good memorizing power on just anything?

But I digress.

I hope this helps some of you with your home making!

God bless,

Ann

What Caused the Reformation? | Worldview Weekend

An article worth adding to your remembrance of Reformation Day.

What Caused the Reformation? | Worldview Weekend.


This movie is also well done as a portrayal of Martin Luther's life. It can be watched via Amazon instant video for $2.99.

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002JAHW8M/ref=pe_385040_118058080_TE_M1T1DP


To involve the kids, how about have them pick a person who was key to the Reformation and do a presentation on them?


1517

Today marks such an important day in the history of the Gospel. Freedom from sin comes only through Jesus Christ's death and resurrection; paid for once and for all as the Bible says. We do not need to re-crucify Christ through a repetitive act weekly. He paid the price and it is by grace, through faith, that we are born again in to God's family. Even though my beliefs hail from the Anabaptists rather than true Protestants, I'm grateful for what Martin Luther did on this day in 1517. To God alone be the glory.

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Could We Be Reaching Many More in October?

History: Reformation for Kids.

A simple to understand summary of the Reformation. Resources for children abound!

I have wondered--as Christians have forgotten to celebrate or acknowledge Reformation Day, has it become a missed opportunity to share the truth of the Gospel with lost Catholics? When we aren't set apart, it is easy to have lines blurred...if we 'all' celebrate Easter, Christmas, Halloween or Substitutes for it, the 4th of July...what sets us apart?

What message would be communicated if many of us who believe there was a real and serious need for the Reformation talked about remembering Reformation Day? What if we didn't dress up and give out candy on Oct 31st but instead held Reformation Day parties? Wouldn't that subtly communicate to lost Roman Catholics they are still not on the right page when it comes to the truth of God's word? If we did this because we love Christ, His church, and all who are lost, wouldn't that say something?

Sadly, many think sharing the truth is hateful. But isn't it most hateful to be silent when faced with heresy?



Confession No. 131 — Water? Gasoline? Or dynamite? Well, that all depends.

Confession No. 131 — Water? Gasoline? Or dynamite? Well, that all depends..

Adam has touched on a salient point.

My .02....

It is difficult when you take the high road in dealing with incendiary (and thus, immature) people. Time and again you can assuage and respond better than you want to, and when there is no acknowledgement of wrong-doing nor a mere apology for a poor tone, it really can alter a relationship even if forgiveness has been extended.  There are consequences to our actions that live beyond the reconciliation, if we are so fortunate to actually get full reconciliation. Some people are just determined to be unreasonable. Sadly, even if these people continually have difficulty with others, they can fail to see the common denominator is staring them in the mirror.

Selected Works of Martin Luther

Selected Works of Martin Luther.

He was an imperfect man, but God still used him to do some important work for the sake of the gospel. Coming from a Catholic background, I'm grateful for what Luther contributed. 

If You Look for It, You'll Find It

Trouble.

It is something that wants to be found. It sits, waiting patiently, and not in a terribly obscure location. Some people are nearly professionals at finding it. Honed skills set to work when an opportunity arises to ferret it out. The lack of contentment and joy is present in the life of one who enjoys locating it, or is at least very accustomed to nurturing it.

Children must be taught to shun digging it up and inviting it into relationships. Parents must model how to encourage it to go back to sleep without disturbing anyone.

"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God." Matthew 5:9

"A man's discretion makes him slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook a transgression." Proverbs 19:11

Sometimes it is very wrong to overlook a transgression. Interested in more?

Here is a worthwhile article to read by Pastor John MacArthur entitled, "Let 'Em Know or Let It Go?".

Ideas for Reformation Day

An old World Magazine article from 2009-http://www.worldmag.com/1997/10/reformation_day

Doorposts has a book: http://www.doorposts.com/details.aspx?id=46. I love Doorposts, we used many of their resources for younger children I only recently parted with.

Finally, this is a post by June Fuentes and it is well done. She has a lovely blog. A few years ago she stopped writing exclusively on her blog so she could focus more on her family of 9 children. For a long time I had her button on my blog. It's worthwhile to go through and read what she has posted.

http://proverbs14verse1.blogspot.com/2009/10/reformation-day-celebration.html (this is an old article so some links no longer work)

Book Review - George Whitefield | Challies Dot Com

Book Review - George Whitefield | Challies Dot Com.

Challies has done a terrific job reviewing this book. This review of George Whitefield blesses my soul. I'm presently about 80% through Volume I and am utterly amazed at the spiritual stirring reading it has caused. I cannot fathom the tireless devotion Whitefield displayed during his ministry. It makes me long for Heaven, to meet men like this and to be in awe afresh of my Savior. Biographies of great men are worth our time, far more than TV or many other forms of Bible study.


Being Home

10/14/14

It shouldn't amaze me how God is so right, but the little details are always a delight. He says for me to be a keeper of the home, and you know, since changing our lives for me to be AT home most of the time, it has been so much less stressful. Maybe it is due to my season of life, but the slower pace of being here doing school all day, every day, is wonderful. We know what to expect each day, and I'm not running all over the place, which tires me quickly. There is just less chaos when we are not getting out the door time and again. Disruptions to school are minimal, so we are getting loads of work done without the needless anxiety.

What has really helped us with our school is not only a schedule with time allowances for the work to be finished, but loading the week so that Monday-Wednesday we are home getting the vast majority of work in. God has blessed so that we can do sewing and piano on Thursday and make up that time lost for academics on Friday. Getting the bulk of work done early in the week also allows for the occasional field trip on Friday (if they have notice so can work ahead) or a more leisurely day.

Something I really like about no longer doing Classical Conversations in the group setting is that we can do math 5 days per week. That has been a burden for years. It is tough to get fully through a curriculum with math only 4 days per week.

Giving Thanks

Giving thanks chases away discontent. Whether it be with children, a spouse, school, the house...or more importantly, a feeling of 'am I doing enough for the Lord?' Be thankful for where He has you and what He's given. Tomorrow it could all change. Death knocks suddenly sometimes. Job loss does as well. Homes burn down or get broken in to. How many times do we women fret only to realize moments later we should have been thankful for what we had, when we had it, and for where God has led?

The Lord will give opportunities as He wills. If we do the work before us heartily, remembering our first calling is to our husband and children, we will soon see there is not nearly as much of us to go around as we previously thought. Giving thanks helps to calm the restlessness. God is good.

Staying the course--keeping the white fence post white---these are the struggles of motherhood and Christianity. With so many glamorous opportunities beckoning us....so many worthy causes to delve in to...so many people who need us...it can be easy to give our time and effort to those whom we did not bear, neglecting duties assigned solemnly to us and us alone.

The hand that rocks the cradle not only rules the world, it is a hand of obedience. Don't get caught in to thinking that because this or that opportunity is out there, you are the one to meet it. Perhaps you are one to pray for it to be met. A mother's calling requires a lot of time. Preparing wholesome food to a hard working husband takes hours of thought and preparation. Do not neglect the duties God has set before you, mistakenly thinking you should be doing more outside the home. God is pleased with a keeper of the home who tends her flock first.

Why Does God Say What He Says?

This is a question that could surely be answered far better than I can answer it, but one part of the answer to why God says what He says in the Word He's given, is that His ways are above our ways. He understands human action, the thoughts and intentions of our hearts, and how to avoid sin.

We can say that certain parts of Scripture do not apply to us, but we are deceived if we honestly think that. God is God, and He understands the consequences to going our own way.

For example, the way children are disciplined plays in mightily to their attitude. It is not hard to cause children to develop sulking, brooding, or angry attitudes. I recall being sent to my room as a youngster and how I would think vengeful thoughts. It took me time to get over my anger problem and negative way of thinking when I felt wronged. I was not disciplined biblically (the Bible is clear on swift discipline that brings physical discomfort) and the training did not succeed in addressing and redirecting my thinking. It was action oriented, which only did part of the job. God understands human development far better than we do, and young children respond well to the way God has outlined it. There is no need to yell at your kids or get angry with them (people learn angry ways by being with angry people the Bible says), discipline them as God says and it is effective and over with quickly.

What about not being surety for another's loan? We can justify when this is OK, using our human logic. But it isn't always about the person repaying--though of course that is a huge part of it. What of encouraging others to work and save to the point they don't need someone to be surety? A pattern of buying what cannot be afforded is easily begun when parents co-sign for their kids.This generation knows nothing of the ways our grandparents and their parents before them lived. We want what we think we need, and we borrow to get it. God tells us the servant is a slave to the lender, and the older generations knew that. Look at the size of the homes our grandparents had. None had the spacious homes we all have today. The lifestyle we lead perpetuates the value system we've adopted, so we 'must' have vehicles to go and do this and that, we must have cable TV, we must have smart phones with fancy data plans etc. Where does God fit in to this? We ignore Him and do what we want, then have the audacity to ask Him to bless and help when we need it. Of course, His ways are not our ways, and He is continues to be gracious toward us.

These are just two examples, but there are loads more. As followers of Christ, we do not obey God because we've reasoned out what He says and in our estimation, it is worth listening to. If we are Christians, we do what He says because we trust Him. We come willing to be shown the error of our ways, and we take on His ways. Often, He'll show us the 'why' of it later, but even if He doesn't, we can rest confident in the fact we've followed the One who knows, and who is always trust worthy.

Proverbs 3:5-7

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path. Be not wise in your own eyes, fear the Lord and turn away from evil.

~Ann

Dump Cake | The Pioneer Woman Cooks | Ree Drummond

Dump Cake | The Pioneer Woman Cooks | Ree Drummond.

I have not made this, but the post is hilarious and I feel like my friend and I could be saying these things to each other. That makes me laugh even more!

What I did today is take a golden cake mix, added 2 eggs, pureed raspberries and a little bit of applesauce to get the measuring cup from 1/4 cup oil to 1/2 cup liquids. Then I threw in some ground flax seed and a handful of coconut, poured in about 1/2 bag (probably a little more) of chocolate chips, stirred it together. Using a cookie scoop, I got 3 dozen cookies formed. Baked in a 350 degree oven for 10 minutes. I'd share a picture but the camera is off camping! They smell incredible!

Updated: 10/14 I took pie filling from the country store, added more cranberries and apple, some brown sugar, applesauce and apple pie spice, then did the cake thing and butter on top. We'll see how it goes. Maybe I'll post a picture if it's yummy!

Ree says you can do any combination of fruit with her Dump Cake, so I'm brainstorming on what to do. I love Bakers Choice Cherries, so might just do all cherry...that would be delish I think...but I'll wait until I lose these extra pesky 5 lbs.

~Ann

Bulgur-aka Best Food Ever

I've found 2 bright spots to the dismal months of fall.

1. less full drawers due to moving out the vast quantity of summer shirts

2. the ever-faithful palate delighting taste of bulgur

Bulgur is great any time of year, but I'm throwing fall a bone by letting it have this piece de resistance. That's franglish, in case you were wondering. Anyway, you can treat this lovely grain as you would rice, though I'm not sure about rice pudding. I saute it with onion and garlic in olive oil. Add homemade chicken broth and loads of eggplant, plenty of pepper finds its way in...cook, cook, cook till all the liquid is absorbed. Throw in frozen corn for visual appeal, maybe some broccoli, or collards (they'd get sautéed first) or spinach...it is glorious.

You can add ground beef during the sauteing, YUM!!! And so healthy.

Sorry, no time for a picture. But try this low glycemic index, high protein meal soon. You won't be disappointed. (don't forget some salt, it's needed).

A Small Circle

For a few days I've been thinking about how we can add to our own stress level in one particular area that I often think goes unnoticed because of the culture of the day here in America. I've proven it to myself this last year, and can't help but believe others would also benefit from cutting back on how many people they interact with regularly. It probably makes some recoil at the thought of having less people in their day to day life, but between texting, emails, Facebook, church, family, mommy groups and homeschool groups, we can find ourselves concerned with the lives of a multitude each week.

Are we designed to shoulder this much care for others?

And do we actually care, or are we so overloaded that we've learned to glide among the dynamics barely ruffled by what is going on around us. Apathy isn't a virtue of course.

People to love and be loved by are wonderful, don't get me wrong, but we really do have a purpose and a work to do if we are married with children. Barring materialism, or a husband who genuinely cannot provide for his modest family's needs, Christian mothers should be at home raising their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Only in today's culture does this mean running from activity to activity, exposing ourselves and our kids to oodles of people each week. It only takes one generation to lose the love of being a home maker or the importance and high value of a mother/wife at home, and I think we're seeing this trend right now. Instead, mom's are preoccupied with getting together with this person or that person, helping with this group or that group, running in this race or that race, having their child participate with these kids for this and those kids for that....

We accept moms who are always, or very often, frazzled, as icons to look up to if they manage to teach this, enroll their kids in that, have everyone play soccer, coach a team, serve at church etc. etc. These same type of moms can sometimes be found criticizing those who take great pleasure providing wholesome, home-cooked food for their family as a great time commitment, as if it is a waste of time. Which of these more closely models being a keeper at home?

Do we have a careful process on we choose to admire?

Through the years I've witnessed women get lifted up as those to admire by other influential women, only to find the reasons aren't what I would have expected. Naively, I thought the criteria would be something other than 'a person willing to work hard and sacrifice for us', but I probably shouldn't have. In churches and various groups, those who we or others perceive as super godly (whatever that is supposed to mean) are usually those who are serving in an area they are gifted in, but they may not be living as God would ideally want. These women are often neglecting their own family in one way or another--whether it be their house is a wreck or they don't serve their husband, yet is this the picture of a Proverbs 31 woman? We can't control all of our circumstances, and ladies in a  myriad of walks of life can be used of the Lord and have things to admire, but I think we should be able to agree that there are some obvious things that give certain women more of a place of rightfully being admired. Just as the Bible has criteria for a pastor or deacon, there are things we can see that should be reason to follow someone's example (like Paul, we can follow him because he's following Christ...). Why do we blindly listen to someone who says overtly or subtly this person is wonderful, playing into the little psychological games that get played to make us want to do the same thing as said 'wonderful' person? Rather than let our insecurity dictate what we do, we should go to the Lord and earnestly seek His favor.

As my kids have gotten older, a lot of things have changed with my view of social time for me and social time for them. I know most people will say that as kids get older, they NEED more time with peers, but I have to question that. Why? Why during years of really wrestling with hard life issues do they need less time with the people 100% committed to their welfare? Why do they need less time with the mother committed to training them to run a house (for girls) now that they are mature enough to tackle serious home making tasks? Why do young men need LESS time with the man you chose to marry who you trust with not only your life, but there's? We need to realize that more time with others means less time at home with us, and the years to influence are going fast. Do we want to influence our kids the most, or do we want their friends to, and who are their friends anyway? If we teach our kids to require tons of time with other children, and tons of time outside our homes, they will 'need' more and more time outside of us as they get older. My word choice is not accidental--we teach them to be content or we allow them to be discontent in this area. I'm not suggesting we ignore the natural bent of some kids to want more time with friends, but it is sometimes those children who most need us to curb their appetite, for their own protection. Just, think, is what I'm encouraging us to all do, rather than do what everyone else is doing. Please realize I do not have an only child, and can not speak to that dynamic.

Above all of this 'mommy blog' advice, please take time to seek the Lord. Ask what it is you want for your family, and be willing to let God provide what you need as you give your kids what they really need. All of our needs change as we mature, at least they should be changing. I certainly have reordered my priorities and my felt needs have changed as my kids and I have aged.

What messages are our kids learning from those they are around? Do certain interactions with others leave them feeling or acting poorly, why? Is it something they need to grow through or something they need to be protected from? Not all negative experiences are ultimately harmful, sometimes they serve a purpose for a season as we make the best of something (that was our last yr of Classical Conversations--times to grow but not things we'd want repeated). What about you, mom? Why are you doing what you are doing? Is it bringing glory to the Lord, and what are your kids really learning about family life, marriage, God, relationships with others, priorities etc. based on what you are spending your time on each week?

I want my children to understand biblical marriage, and the high value of a full-time mom. I want them to experience the peace of a well-ordered home and the health benefits of nutritious meals offered at the same time each day. I want them to see me serve their father lovingly and sacrificially, and I am blessed they see him do the same for me. I hope for thousands of hours of happy memories of us doing things together in our home--playing games, reading, cooking...and loads of hours of working together in our home doing yard work, cleaning, doing laundry. They know they are an important part of this family unit, and we're keeping traditions that I grew up with as we clean each Saturday morning getting the house ready for a new week. They don't realize the cleaning, laundry, and dish schedules are teaching them what a well-ordered home can be like, nor do they see the years it took me to figure it out. In living a peaceful life where they are well rested and free to learn, we're building a tapestry of ideals which they'll carry in to their future homes. Life does not have to be hectic all the time, and the day to day things we all need, matter; it isn't necessary to have laundry piled up or not done consistently, and it is OK and even right to show your family you love them by dazzling them with great meals each night. There is no shame in using nearly all of your time and energy to bless the socks off the people who live with you, and giving the rest to those in the body of Christ or those you are trying to reach with the gospel. It can mean having a smaller circle, though.

God bless

It's Like They Know Us-Humor

It's Like They Know Us.

Some humor for the ladies primarily...breastfeeding, raising young children...it's a photo blog :).

Orange Scones

Monday's sure can be a drag, especially coming off a busy weekend. I'm still recovering, and am just tired. My oldest finished math a little early and cranked out these delicious scones. We all enjoyed a tea break before Latin for one, math for another, and grammar for another.
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Orange Scones


Prep Time: 20 minutes

Cook Time: 35 minutes


Yield: 8 scones in a scone pan

Ingredients

For the scones:

    • 1 1/2 cup all-purpose flour

    • 1/2 cup granulated sugar

    • 1/4 tsp kosher salt

    • 2 tsp baking powder

    • 6 Tbsp unsalted butter, cubed, softened

    • 1 large egg

    • 1/4 cup sour cream

    • 1/4 cup orange juice

    • 1/2 tsp vanilla extract

    • 1 tsp orange zest
For the glaze:

  • 1 cup powdered sugar (plus tiny more if need)

  • 3 Tbsp orange juice

  • 1 tsp orange zest

  • 1 tsp nearly melted butter

Instructions
  1. For the scones, combine flour, sugar, salt and baking powder in a large mixing bowl. Add in butter. Mix using the beater blade of an electric mixer until it resembles coarse crumbs (you can also use a pastry cutter, if you prefer).

  2. Add in egg, sour cream, orange juice, vanilla extract and orange zest. Combine completely.

  3. Make a long roll with the dough, using additional flour to make it workable. Score in to 8 even sections.

  4. Place one section in to each spot in your scone pan, trying to be careful to not overwork the dough.

  5. Bake in a 350 degree oven for 25 minutes. Let cool in pan, separate out on to cooling rack set on top of wax paper.

  6. For the glaze, whisk together the powdered sugar, orange zest and orange juice. Spoon orbrush glaze over each cooled scone, allow to set, about 15 minutes. Store in an airtight container for up to 4 days. ENJOY!

Handling Suffering

I just listened to this sermon from Aug 31, 2014 by Voddie Baucham. Such a good one if you are going through a hard time. It is encouragement for a Christian to endure suffering well, even unto death, realizing God is good all the time. To live well (meaning for God's glory) is one thing, but to die well or watch someone you dearly love die, and you endure it giving glory to the Father--that is a product of a life lived for God.

...Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning! Amen.

(entire phrase is Ps 30:5 For His anger endureth but a moment, and in His favor is life; weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.)

Baked Glazed Spam-Today's Lunch

The Iowa Housewife: Baked Glazed Spam.

I love glazed, baked SPAM. It's a food that, having had it as a child, brings warm fall-filled joy. We cut the SPAM up and lay it out in a 9 x 11 pan so the pieces get well coated and have a little crisp to them. The low sodium isn't as exciting, but we use it anyway. Today we'll have it with fresh green beans from the garden and canned fruit of some sort.

Fall is definitely here. Most of us are in jeans...and it makes me think of land with a pig, chickens, rabbits and many fruit trees to prune....maybe one day.

`Ann

Why I Need Schedules

This day of school is over, at least my part in it. I'm so happy. It was beautiful out and all I felt like doing was going to lunch with my husband, taking a walk, and puttering around. None of those things happened.

Even though nothing I really wanted to do occurred, I'm going to be able to relax tonight with a good feeling of satisfaction. The only reason is: the schedule.

My school schedule is an excel spreadsheet and it starts at 8 am every day except Thursday, but that shifts most weeks to 8 am. It only starts at 8:30 incase we are tired from lingering at church Wednesday night.

All day, every day, I know what I'm supposed to be doing with whom because of the schedule, which we all have a copy of. There is no chaos, guessing, calling out to people who are surprised it's time for them to come work...the key to an organized school day here is a predictable plan. I'm so thankful for it because in spite of the daydreaming that kept capturing my attention, the schedule reeled me back.

Aside from the school schedule, my laundry schedule is my little accountability partner. My memory is terrible, and the less I have to rely on it, the better. My feelings about laundry are equally unreliable. I do not like doing laundry, but I do like having an orderly home and that means clothes that are clean and ready to wear when needed. Taking pleasure in providing this key staple of care to my family is the motivation to stick with my laundry plan. One day my children will be on their own, fending for themselves, but sweet memories of growing up, where they are equipped to 'do it all on their own but don't HAVE to', are what I'm hoping to instill. These years of learning cannot be the years of cooking for themselves, cleaning all the things they interact with, managing all their money etc. It is too much on a child's mind to have to manage all of that; that is why God designed the family with a mother at the helm of daily living. "Let me do that for you," is a blessed thing to be able to say to kids who toil all day with academics and which need down-time to be kind to their siblings, pray, exercise, and just have some fun.

The schedules allow me down-time, but also make it so my kids get the time 'off' which they need. It also means that if I have chores for them to do, it is clear how long they are doing them so their whole day isn't wrought with working.

-ACL

Note: My first excel spreadsheet style schedule was created in 2008-2009 when my children were quite young. The only year we began without one was a disaster, and the kids were asking for one in short order. The schedule is not a quickly created project, so if you are trying to make one and want a template, please email me.

Today's new recipe--Easy Artisan Bread. Mix 3 cups warm water, 1.5 TBSP salt, 1 TBSP yeast, and 6.5 cups flour together lightly. Cover and let sit for 2 hrs. Shape in to 4 grapefruit sized balls and let rise for 40 mins or so. Add a little more flour as needed (especially if you use freshly ground flour). Bake in a steamy 425 degree oven for 20-30 mins. You can get the oven steamy by spraying the walls and quickly shutting it when you put the bread in, or add some water to a cast iron skillet that is already in the hot oven.