7 Signs Divorced Couples Say They Missed | Love + Sex - Yahoo Shine.
Sometimes you find useful info on Yahoo. I'm surprised these signs were missed, but hey, living in denial is a powerful aspect of married life.
The top key not mentioned as a red flag is just not having sex in general. Going to bed at different times to avoid it comes close though. Marriage takes real communication and work, and men will have sex one way or the other, whether through an affair, porn, or some other perversion. In general I'm not a supporter of counselors unless they are nouthetic (you can Google NANC), but when a marriage gets so bad that you aren't doing things together, aren't having sex, and can't talk about anything meaningful, any marriage counselor is better than nothing if they can at least get you talking. Don't pretend, folks, that you can live together amicably but not be romantic or emotionally connected.
If children are a part of your family, the best thing you can do for the kids is have a healthy, loving marriage. It brings security and comfort in ways nothing else can.
~Ann
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