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Revelation 19: Final Justice: The Return of Christ

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The Real Kodachrome

While this song has continued to ring in my ears even though I don't listen to secular music, or even the radio much (and then it's talk radio), it makes me thankful that there is One who can make an aspect of our existence much better than any film. We can have real, lasting change based on convictions...even though sometimes it would seem that having no firm lines is easier. Albeit, in all areas of life, we can't be dogmatic.

A relationship with the Lord will give a perspective on eternity that surpasses the misery of life here on earth, and the gospel is rightly "the good news". We can be free from sin, free from the turmoil of this worldly culture....free from the wisdom of men, which I find more laborious to deal with than many things. So while Kodachrome added brilliant colors to photographs, it wasn't change that could seep in to the people in the pictures. That sort of surface change is all we get from trying to also change our perspective on the world to be one with no absolutes.

Remember along with me-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLsDxvAErTU

Observations

Hard work is a cure for depression.

Consistently getting up early will force a person in to a habit of going to bed early.

A good work ethic is taught gradually, lesson upon lesson, to our children.

Failing to plan is planning to fail, even so, being ready to take God's plan over our own is critical.

Honoring those we live with is not only right, it brings blessings back to us.

A gentle answer really does turn away wrath as God says.

The more you put in, the more you reap, so put in positive things. ♥

Literature...First Day of School

Our first day of school went really well; I was up nice and early so had plenty of time to shower, stretch and come alive. We didn't do everything full boar, but it still took most of the day. Once I  managed to pry the bread out of the bread machine, things ticked along nicely.

In preparation for this year's classes, I'm brushing up on Teaching the Classics by Adam Andrews. I love his approach to literature--the Socratic method. The Center for Lit website has information on live online discussions and this seems like a perfect way to keep a middle/high schooler on a reading schedule of some great classics. I'm already thinking of future years and using this service. How crazy since we've just finished day 1, but that is what I love about homeschooling; it is a process of making a whole (ideally leaving few 'holes' ha ha)

Something new that I am already really glad we're using is All About Spelling. Gaps become immediately apparent with this approach. Not that I have any idea if filling those gaps and firming up the foundation will make any difference with spelling scores on achievement tests...wait until next summer for a report on that. I do like the multi-sensory approach AAS employs.

I hope your school year gets off to a great start,

Ann

 

 

 

School Help

I received a note from Pinterest about various boards I might be interested in. They were all, not surprisingly, school related boards. Looking at the front cover photos revealed organizational dreams of art materials, children using watered q-tips on a chalk board tracing alphabet letters, classrooms full of shelves neatly laden with materials.
And for once as I looked, I was completely disinterested and unimpressed. This is not to say there isn't value in these things or other Pinterest boards, it's just that what really makes a school year meaningful is not all the 'stuff' surrounding school. It is the attitude of the mother that really drives how school goes. The internal commitment and organization of the mother makes or breaks a school year. If you are facing a new year of homeschooling, don't get down about the space you have to school or what new materials you wish you had...an effective school is not measured by the glitz or glitter, or even the creative flair.

Photos from Today


Homeschooling is about educating in meaningful, loving way. It's about connecting with our children purposefully, having a well-ordered day full of the hard work of learning. That can come in various forms, and the best advice I can give for any homeschooling mom is to draw nigh unto the Lord in preparation first, then make a clear schedule and work it.

Proverbs 14:12

"There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death."

This verse has continually been on my mind today. When thinking of education, work decisions, priorities...we need to continually seek God's will. So much of how we're supposed to live is clear in Scripture, and if we follow that, there is great satisfaction.

When my kids were young, I didn't have any regular babysitters available. I'd take them with me for all doctor appointments, dental appointments, shopping--you name it. I'd known women who had family nearby to help them out, sometimes quite often, and at times I felt sorry I didn't have that.

Now that I'm older and my kids are older, I'm so thankful things were as they were back then. I wouldn't trade all the time we had together for anything. It was critical to our relationship being what it is today--for the attitudes it developed in me as well as my children. Personally sacrificing for our kids yields great rewards, it is quite a contrast to living with our kids as though having them was just a box to be checked. This includes honoring their father as the provider for the family.

~Ann

School Preparations

Pencils sharpened

Pens in a jar

Bins with separated curricula

Schedules on spreadsheets

Coordination of sections

Loose leaf

Notebooks

Folders

Rulers

Markers

Crayons

Colored pencils

Resource books

Desks

Printer

Computers

Payments

Prayers...

Inducing Labor Possibly Linked to Autism

I stumbled upon this article and wanted to post it along with a recommendation for the GAPS diet book if you have a child with autism. I think this is very complex and seems likely to be yet another 'jump on the bandwagon' reasoning for why autism is on the rise. I'm not sure how the reasons for needing to induce vs. what is used to induce can be differentiated, but I'm not a research doctor either...

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/wireStory/inducing-labor-tied-autism-study-19939703

End to Down Syndrome?

This article gives a lot of food for thought, but I just wanted to highlight this one paragraph which I believe challenges us to look at a culture that has embraced all of the elements that delay childbirth. What causes people to delay marriage and delay trying to conceive?

Could there be a future "cure" for Down Syndrome?

It used to be very clearly communicated by doctors that not only does fertility drastically start to drop past 35 yrs old, that it is best for a woman to first conceive prior to age 30. No one talks about this now and you won't find nearly as much information on the Internet about it. From what I understand, fertility clinics do not educate patients on the extremely increased likelihood of conceiving a child with Down Syndrome if they are nearing or past 40 yrs old. Do we think this is OK? How many of this 74% are babies conceived through fertility treatment? That is a statistic I'd like to see.

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The number of babies born with Down syndrome has been rising in the past decade, McCabe found. But research suggests that about 74 percent of women who receive a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome end their pregnancies. And -- in a country where women are delaying childbirth -- there are not nearly as many Down syndrome births as there could have been.

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Let's not forget, ending a pregnancy is murder. It means a life has purposely been ended. The eye color of that killed baby was already determined at conception, as well as the gender. The heart was beating. A little person, fully human and fully depending on the selflessness and mercy of others was patiently growing and waiting to be born. The saddest part of the story is that the baby might have actually been 100% healthy but was misunderstood and so, snuffed out before he/she had a chance to lovingly look in it's parents' faces.

Abortion is wrong. It is a sin.

Sin is what separates us from God and if we do not have our sin debt paid for by Jesus Christ, we are responsible for it, which means we will spend eternity in Hell--a place of torture with the absence of love. God is willing to forgive any sin, but we must confess our sin and ask Jesus to forgive us of our sin. He can cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Kids and Respect

This won't be exhaustive, but I wanted to share about raising kids to be respectful and some areas that it matters. I've noticed that young adults who were allowed to second-guess or sass their parents are rather difficult beings to interact with. They don't have a natural respect for those who are older, they have more of a 'if you earn it, I'll respect you' attitude. This kind of negative thinking is easy to form in children, especially if they are only raised by a mother. Women don't notice disrespect as quickly as men do, in general. Subtle tones, ways of questioning...these nuances can be lost on the gentler sex, particularly if she is preoccupied. Men see problems in young men fast, they understand them and too often we ladies want to be more gentle or talk things out more...boys respond well to action that reveals they have been caught in their sinful attitudes. When young children are permitted to question their parents in a disrespectful way, or comment disrespectfully on things their parents do, it lays a foundation for attitude problems later. I think daughters are more apt to this sort of disrespect..."Mom you really spent a LOT at the store!" or just second-guessing what Mom does or how she runs the house. If this type of behavior is allowed to fester, look out later on.

When I was growing up, the relationship between kids and adults was so different. No one was chums with their parents or their friend's parents. We respected them and they acted like adults, not kids. It was the same between kids and their aunts and uncles. I recall my Aunt correcting me just like she would her own child, and that sort of thing was welcomed. In today's world, it's more likely when a kids gets in trouble, the parent is siding with the child and not the adult (think: teachers, relatives, neighbors). It is a sad state of affairs that in today's "NOTICE ME!" world, adults are so insecure that friendship and approval are sought from kids rather than being bold and taking a stand on "I am not concerned if you like me, but I'll hold the line." I think a lot of us can read that and think, "No way, I'm not worried about my kids liking me." but if we really think about all that we reveal to them as far as who we are, we might find that isn't entirely true.

Did you know your parents, I mean, really know them? Did they share all manner of opinions and such with you, their child? I think in general there is a much more immature parenting community among us, myself included, when compared to how our parents were. We can protect our kids from mature content in books or movies, but are we displaying and sharing 'adult themes' in our conversation that undo that? I don't mean x-rated, I mean the thought patterns that an adult evaluates situations with.

It can be hard to find the balance between trying to raise adults and allowing the innocence of childhood, and I'm not able to give a formula. I just think it's worth thinking about if you have young kids at home: how is what I say impacting them? Kids are so sensitive to our opinions and they feel much more secure if we seem to love and like everyone they interact with.

New Crime at the Pump

If you read Yahoo's page, you've seen this. Just in case you haven't, here's something worth watching. Pretty creepy, but also easy to stop. Just lock the car while you pump gas or keep your valuables on you.

http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/sliders-crime-wave-hits-motorists-131443338.html?vp=1

Getting Ready for School

I don't have anything terribly exciting to write about, other than we've been having fun camping this week. It's a wonderful diversion as I prepare to start school. One highlight of our adventures has been reading Little Britches. I love that book! It's quite fun everyone is sitting around together as I read it...quickly, since my husband put it on his account so I can't keep it as long as I'd like. One day I hope to own all of Ralph Moody's books, but for some reason, we don't have one yet. If you could see how many books we do own, it would be apparent why this is such an odd reality.

This year I've got a lot more preparation to do before we start school, so my time on here is dwindling down.

Enjoy the rest of your summer and I'll write when I've got something exciting to say, or at least, half way interesting!

How To Discern the Times

I wish there were a simple formula to explain how to see what is going on in the church today. In reading chapters 10 and 11 of Bonhoeffer, it's apparent God enabled Dietrich to see things that others simply were not seeing. This is the plight of those God shows what is happening...being accused of being narrow-minded, making quick or simplistic judgments, or being a heretic hunter is par for the course. It can be hard to not shout out from the rooftops for people to wake up and take the time to research. Sadly, however, I think the key to discernment is something many believers are simply unwilling to do, so they stick with their mantras of shutting out what they don't want to see or don't want to believe. It takes time, prayer, and discipline...not to mention a dose of courage, to explore what the post-modern church is embracing. Bonhoeffer was a courageous man, unafraid to stand alone on the gospel and racial equality, particularly in the church.

So many of us can remember a "I'm OK! You're OK!" past of yesteryear, and the 'niceness' of not worrying about what others believe because so many are well-meaning or are 'close enough'. If only this were true! People are changing the gospel and changing Jesus, but the words surrounding it are so loving and kind, it gets missed. We all want to get along (can't we just hear the imploring voice, "Can't we all just get along?") When the veracity of Scripture and the true personality and holiness of Christ are being compromised, I answer with a resounding, "No!".

Jesus doesn't have more faith in me than I have in Him. Christianity is not here to make my life better and luring people in to church so that their life will improve just isn't a theme I see in the Word. The early church members came together as committed followers, dying to self and worshiping, they didn't bring in droves of people through good works only to wait to slowly seep in the good news of Christ. There was a divide between believers and unbelievers and people could see it, that is why it was unbelievers who first called people Christian. There was a difference, a clear line of being set apart.

Today it seems few would disagree that the world is wrought with evil, perhaps moreso than these days of the early church, at least there are far more venues for the spread of evil...yet we try to walk so much closer to the world. We want to look so much like the world so we don't make the lost uncomfortable, but this technique isn't seen in Scripture either. Jesus said for people to take up their cross and follow Him. He said that family members would be divided because of some having faith and others not...the gospel separates because there is no similarity with light and darkness.

But  not in 2013--it's unpopular to tell people they are sinners who offend God and that without Christ they will spend eternity in Hell. In 2013 it is judgmental to say that drawing circles and praying in them is not Christian and should be avoided. In 2013 we welcome in homosexuals and many church leaders like Rick Warren join with other so-called evangelicals proclaiming people living in a lifestyle of sin go to Heaven. In Scripture we see a message of turning from sin in order to follow Jesus. But now, because we think we're more loving than God, we lie to people to avoid hurting their feelings and tell them they can continue to engage in something that is an abomination to God.

It is a world of no absolutes, except of course for the absolute that says you can't say there are absolutes. The "logic" is dizzying. Books that promote heretical ideas are swept under the rug or read by believers because on some level they think it's worthwhile to mix truth with error, all the while not looking deeper in to what the philosophy of the author is...not realizing what 'remaking Christianity' really means. Human nature has all but been forgotten and we play as though we're not rebels wanting to cast off some shackle, real or imagined. We flirt with ideas that are unscriptural because we get bored with tradition and are undisciplined in general. Exciting titles pull us in...

But....we have to be discerning. There are ministries that give insight to what is happening today in the church.  I'm not saying these folks are 100% right all the time, that would be ridiculous, but if we're praying for discernment and are passionate about truth, we'll have eyes to see.

Some places to start:

  • read the Bible very often
  • ask God to show you what He sees in the church today, ask for discernment
  • read The Truth War by John MacArthur
  • read Faith Undone by Roger Oakland
  • Apprising Ministries


Read classic, historic Christians for perspective...George Whitefield, Chesterton, Augustine (not that I'm endorsing everyone's theology or philosophy, but we can gain a lot of understanding of how far the church has gone in to worldliness as the world has gotten more worldly.)

I know many think it's a downer to pay attention to negative things, but if you are a Christian reading this, don't you think we have a responsibility to represent the truth in this dark age? Isn't it reasonable that we could be misled if we aren't vigilant to understand the speak of the day?

I know for a while I was really getting caught into the false humility of attitude which said I really didn't understand this or that about the Bible and so I comfortably avoided confrontation or seeming narrow. I see this now as one of the many ways the church is being weakened because there is quite a lot we can and should know. It's easy to be influenced by the world and wrong thinking if we aren't careful, but be ready, you will be considered a trouble maker or someone who just isn't interested in unity. Because pointing out error in leaders or ministries is completely out of fashion in 2013. I would rather stand alone for truth than come together with people promoting things damaging to the Bible's veracity just because they call themselves Christian. The definitions of the words matter, perhaps moreso today than ever.

If you board th...

If you board the wrong train it is no use running along the corridor in the opposite direction. Dietrich Bonhoeffer

When it was tried to convince Bonhoeffer to work with the German Christian church so he could influence it from within, this was his response. If only more people today had the wisdom to see the wrong direction of the church at large and then the courage to stand for truth.

How Hollywood Helped Hitler

I couldn't be more sick over the cowardice and greed of 20th Century Fox, Universal, MGM and Paramount during the 1930's and 40's. All the lives that continued to be lost because Americans were more interested in money than what was right...had these companies had courage and a heart, people's opinions would have turned against Hitler I feel quite sure. I'm thankful God will judge EVERYONE. Still, I honestly don't know that I'll watch their productions anymore. It's a small sacrifice of solidarity I'm considering for our lost Jewish brothers and sisters, and the brave Austrians, Germans and others who stood against the evil of Hitler.

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/how-hollywood-helped-hitler-595684?page=3

Standing with Israel and loving the Jewish people,

Ann

A Natural Desire to Learn.....HSLDA--Protecting Homeschooling Freedom


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July 30, 2013


Washington Post Gets it Wrong on Freedom, Homeschooling


Scott Woodruff
HSLDA Senior Counsel




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“Oh, my God, I have a chance to learn!” The Washington Post’s recent article about Virginia’s religious exemption statute includes this fascinating quote from Josh Powell, the young man who never attended public school because his parents obtained an exemption on religious grounds.

The article criticizes the law that allows the exemption and lobbies for its change. But let’s slow down and think this through.

How many public school teachers ever hear their students say, “Oh, my God, I have a chance to learn”? Very few. Because sadly, public schools crush many kids’ desire to ever learn again. And this has been documented.

The largest study comparing homeschool students to others (by Dr. Lawrence M. Rudner, University of Maryland) amazingly revealed that homeschool 8th grade students score the same as 12th grade public school students!

Why do homeschool students score an almost unbelievable four grade levels ahead of others by 8th grade? It’s very simple. It’s not that homeschool kids or their parents have higher IQs—I suspect they don’t. It’s simply that homeschools don’t crush a kid’s inborn desire to learn.

When he hit community college, Josh attended remedial classes designed to serve public high school graduates, then zoomed ahead. Now he attends one of the nation’s top 25 universities, earning good grades while working part time and carrying a heavy academic load. Not too bad for a kid who thought he had a bad secondary education!

If Josh had attended public schools, he would have statistically had a 1-in-5 chance of growing into an illiterate adult. The National Assessment of Educational Progress revealed that 21.7% of adults in Josh’s native Buckingham County are illiterate. This is the wreckage of thousands of young people whose desire to learn has been crushed in the public schools.

I wonder if any of the other kids in Josh’s remedial classes went on to attend one of the nation’s top 25 universities. I doubt it.

Maybe Josh didn’t learn that South Africa was a country while he was being homeschooled. But he arrived at the gates of young adulthood with his inborn desire to learn fully intact, and that has served him very well indeed. The Virginia religious exemption statute deserves its place of respect.
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