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Closing Out 2014

Some years are full of celebration and joy. Some are a mixture of hard times and good times. Some are more bad than good, or one really rough event clouds the rest of the events.

Earlier tonight I journaled in my paper notebook (blast from the past, I know) all the highlights of this last year for us... Health problems for me, milestones for my kids, saying goodbye to our dog, turning 40, having a child hit the teen years, and welcoming a new niece. We increased our chickens up to a total of 8, obtained 4 rabbits, and started our first year of homeschooling without being part of any group. My kids embarked on several new adventures with gymnastics/tumbling and crocheting. We revolutionized our finances as a result of going through Financial Peace. I began really seeing the young years of parenting in the rear view mirror, and have been challenged in my faith after finishing George Whitefield's biography.

After having written sympathy notes for loved ones who have lost three people close to them this past week, it's been a sober reminder of what a bad year means. While I've had some rough times and have really needed the support of those who gave it, I'm so thankful to not have buried a family member or close friend.

I'm thankful for the family we have, for my priceless friends, and for those who fall in to both categories.


2014 in review

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Psalm 136 Thanks for the Lord’s Goodness to Israel.


136 Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
Give thanks to the God of gods,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
Give thanks to the Lord of lords,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
To Him who alone does great [a]wonders,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
To Him who made the heavens [b]with skill,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
To Him who spread out the earth above the waters,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
To Him who made the great lights,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting:
The sun to rule [c]by day,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
The moon and stars to rule [d]by night,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.


10 To Him who smote [e]the Egyptians in their firstborn,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
11 And brought Israel out from their midst,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
12 With a strong hand and an outstretched arm,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
13 To Him who divided the [f]Red Sea [g]asunder,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
14 And made Israel pass through the midst of it,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
15 But He [h]overthrew Pharaoh and his army in the [i]Red Sea,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
16 To Him who led His people through the wilderness,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
17 To Him who smote great kings,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
18 And slew [j]mighty kings,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting:
19 Sihon, king of the Amorites,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
20 And Og, king of Bashan,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
21 And gave their land as a heritage,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
22 Even a heritage to Israel His servant,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.


23 Who remembered us in our low estate,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting,
24 And has rescued us from our adversaries,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting;
25 Who gives food to all flesh,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.
26 Give thanks to the God of heaven,
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.

Our Journey to the Creation Museum

To kick off our Christmas break, we headed to northern Kentucky/southern Ohio in order to visit the Creation Museum! It's been a desire of ours for years, and finally the time seemed right to make a go of it. I'd expected it to fully give glory to God and teach us lots of things we don't know, but I really could not have prepared for what it felt like to be in a museum completely based on the truth of God's word. It's the sort of feeling you know is just a foretaste of what is to come in Heaven, and it makes me want to go back.

Upon entering the museum we saw the staff hold hands and pray as part of their morning gathering. (we were early, of course) Given the fact schools were still in session, we were practically the only car in the lot, and we were definitely the first people in the museum and the last to leave that first day.

There is so much to offer at the Creation Museum. You can really see that Ken Ham put a lot of thought in to keeping it interesting for children and adults, and asking good questions is a fundamental aspect of real science. Questions are posted throughout the museum, and the same facts evolutionists and creationists use are presented--the determining factor is the starting point. It is incredulous that anyone could believe in evolution if they really study the human body, the solar system, ecology...basically any field of science. There are many leaps made by those who refuse to believe in God, and many secular scientists realize this themselves.

We see the results of believing the human race has come from nothing--kids who don't value life, people who are completely lost or willing to commit murder to an unborn person. To go through life thinking there is no purpose, that your life really doesn't matter because you were just a cosmic accident, is dismal to say the least.

Through multimedia presentations, special speaker sessions, the planetarium,  and the main exhibit hall, there is an abundance of information that helps a Christian see, in new ways, God's love and mercy for His creation. It is faith building to get a hold of God's power and His working in the world!

If you plan to visit the Creation Museum, give yourself two full days. You will have plenty to do-- and bring some money. The bookstore is gloriously vast and has much to encourage and equip young and old.

I particularly enjoyed meeting Buddy Davis and attending two sessions he was leading--one was a musical event where he performed and the other a hands-on talk about T-Rex where the kids made dinosaur sculptures. Buddy is self-taught and made most of the dinosaur displays at the Creation Museum. He has a real heart for sharing God's truth and I appreciate his influence on my kids. The session that has stuck with me the most as far as facts was one entitled "Beauty is Only Skin Deep". It was amazing to learn about histology and how intricate even the hairs on our heads are. We learned the why of God saying He 'knit us together'. The museum has not skimped on quality speakers.

Other trip tips: give yourself an entire day to drive there and back. We stayed at the Residence Inn, which is considered Cincinnati airport but is in KY.  Avoid driving near the hotel before 9 am and after 4 pm. The traffic is an absolute nightmare and if you think you'll get wise and avoid it, you just might get directed down a treacherous road that will then take you to a FERRY! (no kidding, the GPS told us to pull in and 'board ferry'! We turned around and ate dinner at the hotel that night). Residence Inn's boast a kitchenette so you can take your own food if you want to cut costs, and they offer dinner during the week for free.  The room we stayed in had a working gas fireplace, two bedrooms and two full baths, plus space for an air mattress if you need more sleeping space. The complementary breakfasts are tasty and offer plenty of choices, so they don't get mundane. This Residence Inn does require a short walk outside through a courtyard to get to the main building where meals are served.


Love and Forgiveness

Has there ever been someone in your life that loved you or your children, and just kept at it, asking nothing in return? I've had that experience for many, many years, and you know what happened somewhere along the way? I began loving that person.

This is a perfect illustration of God's love toward us, right down to the imperfect people He has used and is continuing to use as the story of mankind is written.

Love breaks down barriers, it opens doors to blessings for us and others. When we give to someone, which sometimes simply may mean letting them love us, we end up being given to.

There is nothing gained from holding on to grudges, justified or not. There will be opportunities lost that we cannot even fathom. As we hold on to our pain and what we consider righteous indignation, our hands become more and more empty. Love and forgiveness bring something altogether different. They build--they increase.

When giving to others is our focus, and glorifying God is our mission, when the saving truth of Jesus' death, burial and resurrection are upon our lips because of our love for mankind, we can rest assured that our life is one that builds rather than tears down. My hope is to realize that one person that may let me down or tear down in my world may actually be used of God to build up and support in someone else's world. We all sin, we all fall short. If we can just remember this reality, we'll deal with with other people with much more understanding.

Grace, grace, God's grace. Grace that is greater than all my sin...may I approach others with this attitude in Christ Jesus.

~Ann

What Does the Bible Say About Child Rearing?

What Does the Bible Say About Child Rearing?.

I may have posted this before. It speaks well to the idea that there are various biblical ways to discipline children.

It is very clear when a child is not spanked when seeing them in their moments of 'less- than- optimal behaviors'; they simply do not really care what their parents are saying to them to contradict what they want to do. There is no immediate change of direction based on their parents instruction. The age at which this is clear varies, but it is nonetheless a trait that sadly doesn't need to be there.

I'll be direct and as lovingly as I can point out that it is an unwise Christian parent who buys in to the world's ideas of discipline and child training. We must be consistent with a worldview that brings glory to God if we expect to see His type of results, especially in our parenting. God did not mince words on how to raise children who live up to their fullest potential and who are not rebellious.

After being a parent for 13 yrs, I can honestly say the children who come to my home and are trained properly are the greatest joy to be around. This means they are consistently and lovingly reproved for disobeying, and mother has clear standards of first time obedience with a good attitude. If the child is old enough to throw something they ought not, they are old enough to be taught to help clean up the mess. When mother does her job effectively during a visit, we can all enjoy ourselves and my kids aren't expected to chase after the little ones the entire visit, keeping them safe. My children may wish to watch the little ones, but mother is able and willing to do the job. There is a difference. I don't understand parents who repeat themselves with no reaction from their kids. Why are there such low standards? First-time obedience with a good attitude is a standard that is attainable, and parents should not expect less or tolerate less. Children who are disciplined in this manner end up happier and more content in their life because they've denied themselves from early on. We know from Scripture that no good way dwells with in us. Our hearts are desperately wicked and we love ourselves far too much. It is only reasonable to see that children who are held to a high standard, and parents who lovingly sacrifice to train them properly, will reap rewards not attainable by other, lower, means.

Disciplining properly means doing so without anger or delay. It means having your home be the training ground so when you are around others your child is not a problem. Once a child is walking, it is time to work daily, all the time, on teaching them to respect other people's homes, time, and if out in public, the money others have spent to eat out or enjoy themselves. A sad reality in today's world is that many mother's think they are allowed down-time during visiting. If the father is keeping an eye on the children, great, take a break, but otherwise when you have small children you are 'on' 24/7.

~Ann

Proverbs 29

The Joy of Being Pregnant

Before any of my friends wonder if this is a covert announcement, it isn't! No baby news here, but I am thrilled to share that my good friend had her new baby girl yesterday. It's her third, a surprise planned by God. I can't wait to go see her!!

Mary, Jesus' mother, was surely excited in anticipation of giving life to a sweet babe, the Son of God. What an amazing reality that "when the fullness of the time came, God sent forth His son, born of a woman, born under the Law." We would have no need of celebrating Easter if not for the birth of our Savior. The gratitude we can share during this time of year for God loving us so much He sent a way for us to be forgiven of our sins, is such a pleasure. Let's not belittle the reality of the gift of Christ!

So often people will use the excuse, "No one is perfect", when talking about people who 'believe in Christ' as an excuse of why they aren't really following Him. It's good to be reminded that even Satan 'believes'; it is the one who does the WILL of the Father who is in the fold. That means we need to bend our will to match God's. So if we are a follower of Christ, we can't practice fornication, drunkenness, lying, deception etc. as a way of life. We ought to want to please Him and as we learn what doesn't, we need to change. If this isn't you and you think you are going to Heaven, please read the gospel of John!. We aren't free to do whatever we want if we are a Christian. It isn't the change of action that SAVES us, but the change of action comes as a result of being saved.

I'm blessed to have some near and dear family members pregnant for the first time ever. It is such a time of glorious anticipation. Everyone who wants children longs for the chance to raise them the way they think is best, and many parents, especially those who are older, have a lot of ideas about how it needs to go. I think it is very fun and look forward to seeing how things play out. It is  not an easy task regardless of how you go about it, and you'll not find another family doing anything the way you do it exactly. Having that understanding helps so much when it comes to making decisions that are radically different from family or close friends.

Mary and Joseph were dealing with a very unique situation. If we walk close to what Jesus taught and did, parenting will go much smoother than it would otherwise.

Merry Christmas!





True Joy-

I was listening to the first Acts sermon from Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones tonight, which I know I've listened to before. Tonight the message has challenged me greatly, and it is a sober reminder to modern-day Christians about what true joy is.

My thoughts as I listened...

Do we inadvertently teach our children that joy comes from artificial or untrue means? I tend to think that yes, many of us do this in regard to holidays, and I can't help but think it lends itself to the sadness many people feel at the holidays as they age. When the magic is based on false-hood, there can only be one outcome later: something missing. It is a denial of the truth of God's word that we need anything artificial to experience joy in this life. The Christian life is one that is intended to be lived joyfully irrespective of circumstances, but, oh! how that challenges my heart and life. Dr. Jones was spot on when he gave the example of a married couple whose joy was dependent on their relationship. This is such a reality for anyone married--how to transcend this is yet something I've not fully grasped all the time, in every situation.

Let us not communicate to our friends, families, and loved ones that the solemnity of Christianity in any way diminishes the joy of living a life for God's own purpose. In keeping the 'Christ' in Christmas, let us each be challenged as to what that means, and give ourselves and our kids the best opportunity to cherish the celebrations of our religion: through truth, holiness, and worship. The question we need to ask in regard to all we do and how we do it is this: is it going to point others to Jesus Christ and the saving gospel? Is it exemplifying holiness or is it making light of something sacred?

Oh! To be like George Whitefield, who knew so well how to major on what mattered most, pass over what did not, and who did not create unbiblical division in the name of legalistic, self-imposed holiness, which actually hinders the cause of Christ.


God's Wisdom

I like classical education because it capitalizes on how children learn and what stage of life they are in. For example, young children are able to memorize so easily, that is a key focus in the primary years. Going with the natural bend of the mind expands the ability to learn and simplifies it. Why not make full use of how the brain is working?

Along a similar vein, it is neat to think about how when parents are in their 20's they have loads of energy and determination. It is the perfect blend for rearing infants and small children. The mind is still sharp and more than capable of taking in hoards of new information. Sleep deprivation is dealt with and so is the physical demand small children bring. Fast forward ten to fifteen years...the kids are older and very helpful, and wouldn't you know it, Mom and Dad are more tired. They may have physical limitations like chronic foot pain. Going without sleep is a whole different story than the early years of marriage. Wisdom has grown, and as it happens, it is just in time for where the children are developmentally.

It is good to have children in your youth-it determines how you parent in many respects and it is easier. People who are more tired often do not readily do many of the difficult things required to teach children to sleep through the night or eat what they are given. People in the throws of a serious career do not have the time to attend parenting classes, shop around for the best pediatrician, or read oodles of parenting books. Those are tasks young parents are more game for. I do not want to be a discouragement, but rather shed light for parents who are older. Sometimes if we are simply aware of what our tendency may be, it can help us rise to the challenge. Keeping in mind that it is far easier to mold a child that is young should help. If you wait until you aren't tired, they'll be too old to easily work with.

I'm sure trends are always changing, but I guess my point is that perhaps we ought to think about the whole picture of the fertile years and God's timing on bringing two people together when deciding on having children or not having them. The number of kids on some kind of medication today is staggering, and I for one think the environment in which they are raised plays in to it heavily. As we see the ages of first-time parents rising along with this information about drugged kids, it gives one pause. We can't deny nature or methods of parenting having specific outcomes. Just look up some information about ADHD diagnosis' and sleep deprivation. Yet in this era of, "I love my kids too much to make them sleep through the night.", I think we'll see the truth is that parents are hurting their kids, which is the opposite of actually loving them.

~Ann

That’s the Best Frosting I’ve Ever Had | Tasty Kitchen: A Happy Recipe Community!

That’s the Best Frosting I’ve Ever Had | Tasty Kitchen: A Happy Recipe Community!.

I can't wait to whip this up before I make dinner and then head out with my bosom bud for a night of fun! Let me know if you try it and how you think it is :).

**I think it is a really nice consistency and has a good flavor. We put it on vanilla cake and it really beckons to be paired with chocolate. I'd make it again.

~Ann

Sleep Problems and ADHD

Here is an interesting read about ADHD and sleep deprivation in children. It speaks on other things as well, but we can't ignore the benefits of making children learn to sleep through the night at a young age. There is a reason it was common years ago to teach a child that had doubled its birth weight to sleep all through night. Of course when breastfeeding, nighttime weaning coincides with when the baby no longer needs nighttime nutrition.

A solid routine of no TV and dim lights in the room where baby will sleep is a very good practice to help bring about a consistent bedtime. Parents need to learn the different cries of their children, and learn the cues of sleepiness. Too often parents who are ignorant of these things end up training their children to actually stay awake beyond their natural readiness for bed. The TV was scarce when my kids were growing up for intellectual reasons, but even if you don't worry about that, it doesn't help nap time or bedtime since it can be a stimulant, especially as children go from newborn to the older baby stage.

Any decent book on sleep and children, written from a medical perspective, will go over how much sleep children need. There is nothing wrong with watching your baby's cues and trying different things. For example, after the nighttime feeding and burping, lay them in the crib and tell them it is time to go to sleep--long before they understand the meaning of the words, they will start to understand what is expected. Give them 10-15 minutes to settle in-pat their back or bum and talk soothingly to them. We used to gently rub our child's face from her forehead down over her nose and that really comforted her. Babies fuss when they are tired, they fuss sometimes because they don't want to be held. Helping them go to sleep is a parent's job, and it takes work and patience, and of course, sacrifice of being alone in a quiet room, night after night, as baby learns it is bedtime. Again, watching cues and learning them is essential. There is a certain amount of sleep needed, so just keep sitting by the crib or going back in the room during the period of settling in, but make sure your child is getting the proper sleep for each stage of development.

http://sleepfoundation.org/sleep-disorders-problems/adhd-and-sleep

 

Jerusalem Update from Jim at Prophecy Matters

Dec 1 2014

Incitement…from the West

In recent weeks, the Israel Security Agency uncovered a plot by Hamas terrorists to assassinate Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman. According to one report, they had already begun gathering operational intelligence and weapons.

Meanwhile, a Hamas leaflet showed a cartoon-type illustration of a wave of water bearing-down on an Orthodox Jew. In the wall of water were a car, a knife, a meat cleaver, and a gun. All weapons used to try and kill Jews recently in the latest insane wave of violence directed at Jews, by Palestinians. The title of the illustration was “The Jerusalem tsunami.”

On November 23, near the Gaza border, north of the Jabaliya refugee camp, a Palestinian named Muhammad Halawa was killed by the IDF. Palestinian media reported Halawa was killed while “trying to catch birds.” Hamas spokesman Sami Abu Zuhri charged that this was a gross violation of the lull agreement between Israel and Hamas, and “called on the international community to take responsibility.”

All these incidents, so tragically common in Israel and the Palestinian territories, are part of a fabric of propaganda that is aided and abetted by Western sources that coddle the Arabs. We live in a time (who hasn’t in the past 4,000 years?) when the hunting and killing of Jews is not considered to be evil by the vast majority of people. I have long maintained that these “little” terror incidents are in fact huge in their implications.

Take one more, for example.

According to a report on the Facebook page of the Israel Police Force:

“There was a double stabbing attack in the Old City of Jerusalem. A 45 year-old Israel man was stabbed in the chest with a knife; he said Arabs had attacked him. Another man sustained minor injuries. Investigation revealed that the two, who had left their yeshiva, were attacked by four Palestinians, who stabbed them with sharp instruments and fled. The Israeli

security forces conducted a search and detained four young Palestinians from the Old City of Jerusalem.”

I’ve been in the Old City many times, all through it, and the thought of bloodthirsty Palestinians planning violence is unacceptable. Yes, tourists are relatively safe; the terrorists usually know the difference between a camera-carrying fellow from Milwaukee and a yeshiva student, but the narrow alleyways and nooks and crannies make for perfect hideaways.

Where is the outrage from Western leaders over all these incidents? The answer of course is that they don’t exist. Not even a massive bloodbath like the infamous Dolphinarium slaughter of 2001 prompted much in the way of outcry.

As I often do, I must say again: where are the evangelical leaders in America who will condemn, wholly, the targeting and murder of Jews?

The Israelis complain often about the incitement to violence from the Palestinian Authority. But isn’t gross silence and indifference from Western leaders, including elitist evangelical leaders, also a form of incitement? A hands-off approach so long as it’s only Jews being murdered?

I have long believed that at the root of the silence is a simple dislike of Jews. This comes from all denominations: the mainline churches “liked” Jews who were survivors of the Holocaust, because that madness was simply beyond the pale. However, they did not like Jews with guns, the IDF, and especially after the Six Day War, the tolerance from the liberal churches waned.

But even in the so-called conservative denominations, I know leadership — from the SBC and the Assemblies of God — that clearly seems to have a problem with Jews. They might acknowledge and even embrace much of prophecy. They might have some respect for Israel as an ally in the War on Terror.

In their hearts, though, they harbor anti-Semitic attitudes. Somewhere in the childhoods, or in seminary, or around the dinner table, they heard that Jews control all the money in the world, or foment violence in order to prosper. Or they’ve heard that Jews “killed Christ.”

All these dark spots on the hearts of professing Christians add up to one thing: stepping aside when Jews are being hurt.

Look at Jimmy Carter. How can the man teach Sunday school and embrace (literally!) Hamas terrorists? How can evangelical leadership gurus like Brad Lomenick and Gabe Lyons allow anti-Israel speakers at their conferences? How can Dr. Russell Moore of the SBC talk out of both sides of his mouth where Israel is concerned, even sounding eerily like a Replacement Theology guy when discussing Israel? What about the faculty at the Assemblies of God Theological Seminary, closely aligned with the Society for Pentecostal Studies — a group associated with Dr. Paul Alexander, a virulent critic of Israel? When Alexander was scrutinized by the top AG leadership for his liberal stances on homosexuality and the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, several SPS members privately expressed solidarity with Alexander.

Do rank-and-file Christians understand what is going on in “conservative” circles? At every turn, liberal and leftist ideology is seeping into the fabric of church life. And in this narrow focus of violence toward Jews and hatred of Israel, the trends are deeply troubling.

Let me be frank. Stalwart pro Israel leaders like Noah Hutchings at Southwest Radio Church are in the winter of their lives. Who is replacing them? Not enough apologists and pro Israel leaders. In fact, the “replacements” are center-left ideologues who privately (and soon, openly) have a bone to pick with Israel.

Let me give you one final example for now, to help you understand the networks.

Cameron Strang, publisher of Relevant magazine, has had his photo ops with Barack Obama in the White House. Why would the 30-ish Strang be invited to a shindig at the White House? Because Team Obama knows who the influencers are among young people, and Strang, in the pages of his magazine, never misses an opportunity to bash Israel.

This is what we are facing in the not-too-distant future. An age in which the gathering forces against Israel and her capitol, Jerusalem, grow more menacing.

And fewer seem to care.

jim@prophecymatters.com

Grace Alone

In listening to Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones' first two sermons on Romans (www.mljtrust.org) I have been bolstered in my faith mightily. The reminder in his poignant voice that faith is by grace alone, and no work of man, is encouraging as I seek to solidify my sharing the truth with others.

Men died throughout history for the straight-forward Biblical belief that grace is not administered through a sacrament like communion, nor is it granted through avoiding certain foods or performing certain acts of sacrifice on our part. God is fully responsible for our salvation. He grants it as a gift to us as we believe in the sacrificial death of Jesus Christ to cleanse us from all sin, as the Bible says.

With this in mind, we must ask the question: does it matter if a person believes in transubstantiation with communion? What is the doctrine associated with this belief? It is a practice which says Christ is being sacrificed for the taker, again and again...that grace is passed to the recipient through the sacrifice. But is this right?? NO! May it never be! Christ died for our sins, once and for all. The Scriptures attest to this truth. He is not re-sacrificed in the church service for us, nor is He bodily dying as we take communion. He has died, has risen, and has come again. Now He is seated at the right hand of the Father in Heaven.

A wrong understanding of this is to have a wrong understanding of salvation, which has eternal significance. We must be clear in the absolute love and mercy God showed in sending His one and only Son to pay the price for us. "It is finished." Christ said.

Standing true on doctrine is not hair splitting, nor is it unkind. We who have the truth are obliged to love God and mankind enough to proclaim how a man is delivered from this present darkness and put in a new position of reconciliation to the Creator God. In this current age of adding psychology to faith and promoting radical lifestyle changes, the work of God is often complicated erroneously. Salvation becomes a murky mix of works and some sort of belief, and thus we see born again believers weakened in their own faith and incompetent to share the Gospel--the Good News of the Bible.

I am seeing afresh how powerful the Solas of the reformation were and are. Here is a worthwhile read about them.

Ephesians 2:8-9

For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast.

Keep the faith, the simple pure word of God,

Ann