It can be hard to separate our own life from people we care about, but in reality, I think it is healthier to do what we can for others while maintaining what God has directly put us in charge over. Sure, there are times when our family might have to take a brief back seat. I'm talking more about our mental energy toward other people and their problems--whether they are family or friends.
A difference between people who end up overly stressed out about things they really have no immediate control over and those whose lives are more relaxed and peaceful, is this ability to clearly distinguish and make good decisions. I'm finding after 16 yrs of very happy marriage and being satisfied with my children and the direction of their lives at this point (we still have a long way to go and do appreciate your prayers!), this reality is key.
Overall, if we can discipline ourselves to have a solid prayer life, going to God on behalf of our loved ones, we can then move forward in the reality of what truly impacts our own life and the lives of our children. We need to be wise in what we bring in to our homes-be it people, TV shows, movies and music. The more of the world a Christian home allows in, the more worldly problems will be an ingredient in the daily routine. It is not wrong to be happy and enjoying life while those we love are struggling. We need to be compassionate and helpful, but we do not need to be 'in' the same place.
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