How to Overindulge a Child

To render a child what most would refer to as (or at least think even if they don't verbalize it) a spoiled brat, be sure to give them what they want every time they ask. If you fail to do this every time, do not despair, the damage can still be done by giving them what they want MOST of the time. If you are deft with saying NO halfheartedly and can give in after they protest and ask multiple times, you can still be successful in creating a child who cannot control themselves when they are denied something they want.

Advanced methods on overindulging: Be sure to fool yourself that if they ask NICELY after being told NO, you are somehow parenting well. This is actually manipulation and the child is merely being taught that nagging and then acting sweet is how to get what they want.

For those who wish to fail at making their child bratty: have high expectations. Tell your child what to do and calmly expect it the first time with a good attitude. If they fail to act quickly or fail to do it with a good attitude, discipline them and explain why they need to act differently next time. If this is a big change in your parenting, have a talk before trouble starts to outline what your new expectations are. Your part as the parent is to get off your phone or computer and pay attention to what your child is doing. Respond quickly, consistently, and appropriately to their actions. Set up opportunities for them to have to obey you as training. Be nice and sweet, but be firm in your expectations.