Wisdom should lead us to not overload those in another place than we are with information they are not ready to consider. I'm certain my husband is careful with the information he gives me, and he always has been. He carries the load he's carrying as our protector and provider, and is good at weighing what everyone can take on. The comparison isn't exact, but the same general principle applies with our brothers and sisters in the faith. We need to be careful to perceive when we're not doing someone a favor by making them think about something in a way that is going to strain them or cause them to struggle.
The Holy Spirit is the One to reveal the truth He wants to reveal in the minds of a believer reading the Word of God or hearing sound preaching. I am not equipped to debate many things, nor do I wish to, particularly with fellow church members. Unity is extremely important to God, so I generally side-step areas of disagreement that are not fundamental matters of faith and belief. I will discuss differences much more openly with people who attend other Christian churches, but even then, unity is more important than changing minds on secondary and tertiary issues.
That said:
Mark 1:5. And all the country of Judea and all Jerusalem were going out to him and were being baptized by him in the river Jordan, confessing their sins.
Question: Did ALL of the people, every single one, go out to Jesus to be baptized? When we approach scripture with a preconceived idea that a word always has to mean X because otherwise it doesn't lead to the conclusion we want, we're not giving an honest reading. "All" does not mean ALL, as in every single one, every time the word is used. We must look at the context and not be afraid of what the Bible says or is teaching. I contend that not every single person went and I do not think the verse implies it. Figures of speech; they exist now and I believe they existed when scripture was penned. It likely means MANY, maybe even MOST, but not EVERY SINGLE person living in each country.
John 6:37-39
37 All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will certainly not cast out. 38 For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me. 39 This is the will of Him who sent Me, that of all that He has given Me I lose nothing, but raise it up on the last day.
Question: Does every single person that the Father gives to Jesus go to Him? Yes, this statement gives the limiting factor. The people God gives to Jesus, all of THEM, will COME to Jesus. (side note: All that He GIVES will COME to Jesus. Isn't that interesting? On God's side, He is GIVING them to Jesus but on the side of people, they are COMING.) Does this say the Father gives ALL people to Him? Every single person that the Father GIVES to Jesus WILL come to Jesus. And of ALL that God has given Jesus, NONE will be lost, they will be found in Him (saved) until the end and will be with Him in eternity.
Just to make a statement, it is OUR OWN SIN that sends us to Hell, so to say God sends people to Hell is incorrect. God is good all the time, and He would be just if we all spent eternity in Hell. The way I see it, He is just to choose some to not spend eternity in Hell. Praise God for His mercy! The mind of God is much higher than mine, and many men have minds much deeper than mine, but that is just how I see it. I think we need to be careful to not throw stones at Christians who believe we're all saved by grace through faith, and not of ourselves, but realize it is a gift of God, not of works, lest any man boast. We need to believe in Jesus Christ as the only payment for our sin. If we agree on that, we're among the brethren, so why try to portray one another as wicked if we disagree on finer points?